Note: Five Reasons Why Some People Are Easier To Talk To Than Others

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 Five possible reasons why you gravitate to certain individuals much more than with others and why it's not too difficult for you to have meaningful or long conversations with them: 

1] You have so many things and qualities in common, while you mutually don't feel envious of each other at all. 

✅ For instance you're both okay with polygyny, both of your parents passed away, you both resided in Saudi Arabia for several years, you are both the eldest of your siblings or you're an only child, you both enjoy researching about psychology and self-development, or you both can speak Arabic fluently etc. 

2] There are numerous aspects about them which you admire for Allah's sake, and likewise there's something about you which they find admirable or agreeable. 

✅ Example: You like how they're trustworthy and honest, while they respect your courage in accepting your husband's decision to stay married to more than one wife. Or you're amazed by their enthusiasm to generously share Islamic reminders and authentic knowledge regularly, while your carefulness with the way you utilize social media is one fact they love about you. 

3] You can sense that they refrain from purposely trying to make you jealous, insecure or uneasy, just as they are already at ease around you. They're not intimidated by you just as you're not threatened by their vibes in any way. 

4] They show willingness to become more acquainted with you for Allah's sake, while you're also willing to develop and maintain the connection. 

Two Muslims can Inn-sha-Allah connect well if both of them believe that networking and strengthening the link can bring them closer to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 

5] Allah the Most Wise is the One Who destined your souls to actually feel comfortable around each other. 

You and some individuals can never "click" or amicably get along, even if you were colleagues or next-door neighbors, if establishing a strong bond with them isn't part of Allah's Qadr. 

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are like conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109 

Sahih Muslim 2638 

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Poem: Tired Of Jealous People Treating You Rudely? Feel Sorry For Them. They're Actually Unhappy.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Letter to comfort Muslims who are often bullied 

Or treated rudely by those guilty of jealousy: 

Know that those who are blessed with faith and inner beauty

Don't roam around earth to bully and spread misery. 

Whoso treats you badly is jealous or unhappy. 

~•~

Maybe envy disturbs them because you look pretty; 

And knowing you're much prettier spoils their self-esteem. 

Or they're single while you're married, or your bravery

Seen in accepting your husband's choice to remarry 

Makes them feel insecure or emotionally weak. 

~•~

Or they're envious because to several countries

You've traveled, or Allah enriched you with piety 

And guidance to do more good deeds with sincerity. 

Or Allah granted you from your loving family 

Some relatives who advise you when necessary. 

~•~

Or those jealous people, they envy you intensely, 

Because the way you deal with others confidently

Causes them to doubt their self-worth and abilities. 

Or you strive to keep it real, while they're untrustworthy. 

Your honesty makes them feel inferior morally.

~•~

Most likely the fact that they envy you immensely

Is the reason why they treat you disrespectfully. 

Feel sorry for them. Perhaps Allah the Almighty

Doesn't love them enough to bless them with inner peace 

And true contentment with Allah's gifts dispersed wisely.

~•~

From the problems of the jealous: Persistent worry, 

Inability to relax because you clearly

Surpass, outshine and transcend them in ways aplenty, 

And constant urge to stalk your online posts spitefully - 

Bad energy from spite is too heavy to carry.

~•~

Tired of toxic people treating you obnoxiously? 

Let their discourtesy testify that jealousy 

Triggers them to misbehave to soothe despondency. 

While some envy your trust in Allah the Almighty, 

Others can't stand seeing you satisfied inwardly.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not envy one another, do not outbid each other, do not hate one another, do not turn away from each other, and do not outsell each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers. The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim. He does not wrong him, nor humiliate him, nor look down upon him. Righteousness is here," and he Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam pointed to his chest three times. The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It is enough evil for a man to look down upon his Muslim brother. The entirety of the Muslim is sacred to another Muslim: his life, his wealth, and his reputation."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2564

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it erases good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti 

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