Quotes: Not Everyone On Earth Can Appreciate And Recognize The Value Of Real Gold

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ "Be certain that the gold remains gold, valuable as it is. A piece of gold, if you hold it and throw it in the road, stays golden. If you take that gold and sell it somewhere, it is still gold. Wherever you place it, that piece of gold remains golden and very valuable. At least one day has to come when somebody notices that piece of gold and appreciates its precious value. 

Maybe that previously rejected or discarded gold was held by someone who got accustomed to holding rocks so he/she considers that piece as an ordinary rock but only its color is different, which is why he/she is unable to appreciate its real value. Thus he/she finds it easy to throw that piece of gold away. 

Maybe this gold, if it had feelings, would become infuriated or feel upset because that individual didn't pay close attention to it or they failed to acknowledge its value. However it doesn't know that Allah the Most Wise may have allowed such person to discard it so there can be somebody else in the future who (truly deserves them and) would appreciate the value of that valuable gold, picking it up, appreciating its worth, and holding it dear to them." 

~•~ 

Dr. Mohammed Al-Khaaldi (motivational speaker) 

https://t.me/drrmohh

https://www.instagram.com/drrmohh/?hl=en 

https://m.youtube.com/channel/UC8EtfO0n91gtqVz2_AwqpSA/videos 

Poem: Patiently Cope With The Death Of Loved Ones Who Died Without A Goodbye

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 What you can do to cope with the death of those who died 

And returned to Allah without a formal goodbye, 

To shun regret - instead of sighing "if only I 

Spent more time with them or if I weren't so unkind..."

You calmly accept the choice of Allah the Most Wise: 

~•~ 

Do what the beloved Prophet Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) advised. 

Patiently say the prescribed Du'a when Muslims die. 

Make sure the body is covered, including their eyes, 

And avoid crying in a style which Allah dislikes. 

To question Allah's plans and wisdom we have no right. 

~•~ 

Thank Allah they're no longer suffering in this life. 

No more stress, tears, and worries every once in a while. 

No more difficulties for them as long as they tried 

Their best to live dunya in a way that Allah likes. 

If they're from the righteous, rejoice for them from inside. 

~•~ 

Pray that Allah forgives them, every once in a while 

Ask Allah to grant them mercy, fill their graves with light, 

To join them with good souls who make it to Paradise 

Where we can hopefully meet again and reunite, 

And pray that wherever they are they enjoy delight. 

~•~

Hope to see them in Jannah. Almost each day and night 

Mention their names when praying. Know it's okay to cry 

Whenever you miss them and certain people remind 

You of the nice things they did while they were still alive. 

Keep striving for Allah. There's no grief in Paradise. 

~•~ 

📖 Ibn 'Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma from his father that the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The deceased is punished in his grave for the wailing done over him." (Refrain from wailing or excessively crying over those who've returned to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.)

Reference: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1292

In-book reference: Book 23, Hadith 51

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 2, Book 23, Hadith 379 

📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: A man said, "O Messenger of Allah, which of the believers is the best?" The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Those with the best character." The man said, "Which of the believers is the wisest?" The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Those who remember death often and have best prepared for it with good deeds; those are the wisest."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4259

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Poem: Have Enough Patience To Wait For Your Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 When I receive news he won't arrive until later,

I tell my heart, "Stay patient, soon things will get better,

With Allah's Will, if not here then in Jannah up there,

Where there's no separation between destined lovers."

~•~

When my husband has been gone for many days or weeks,

With his absence leading me to feel grieved and fatigued,

I tell my mind, "Understand your husband is busy."

So excuses are made to shun negativity.

~•~

When the reasons to give up outweigh those that cry "Stay.",

I tell myself, "I married him all for Allah's sake."

Emphasizing that with patience things will be okay.

One reward for the patient is seeing Allah's Face.

~•~

Every season of every year I'll keep loving him -

The man whom Allah chose as my spouse - through thick and thin.

Whether our moods are warm or the feelings get frozen,

Love remains, in spite of silent breaks and arguments.

~•~

This love which Allah taught me is different I see -

It's an odd mix of confusion and addicting peace,

A healing refreshment which I take so eagerly,

And gift whose value isn't clear to everybody.

~•~

I'm like an attorney defending a friend with crimes

Of preferring his work and neglecting love sometimes,

Against interfering critics who claim to be kind,

Unaware that I'm fine, even as my man's first wife.

~•~

I don't regret accepting this kind of marriage life.

Since this love is for Allah, I believe it can thrive.

This bond allows me to wait for my spouse day and night,

Preparing for reunion in Jannah Paradise.

~•~ 

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)".

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyadh As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286 

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Poem: Obvious Reasons Why shaytan Finds Divorce Appealing

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Likely reasons why our foe and Allah's enemy, 

The devil / shaytan likes it when Muslim families 

Break up, and hearing Muslims quarrel unreasonably 

Entertains him immensely, letting this demon feel 

As if he's won the battle against humanity: 

~•~ 

What Allah designed - shaytan wants it to disappear. 

All that Allah loves - shaytan hates and hopes they would cease, 

Or he'll mess with them so they open doors to misdeeds. 

If Allah the Almighty beautifully decreed 

Some souls to become spouses, shaytan boils with envy. 

~•~ 

Since the beginning, shaytan is filled with jealousy 

Towards Prophet Adam ('alaihis salaam) who was blessed with Hawwa / Eve. 

It makes sense that he feels furious when humans increase 

In numbers. He'd do whatever he can tirelessly 

To destroy lawful love and prescribe disharmony.

~•~ 

Concerning divorce, the likeness of shaytan when he 

Tries to urge couples to fight each other pridefully 

Is that of a sly referee who deceitfully 

Persuades naive players to end the game unfairly, 

Then he comes out as the champion, whilst they greet defeat. 

~•~ 

Divorce is permitted, but it fills shaytan with glee  

If the husband and wife were both too proud to agree 

That, while they have needs and flaws, they've got ability 

To keep loving each other for Allah patiently, 

Eager to shield their marriage from shaytan's miseries.

~•~

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations (mischief, trouble). One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'" 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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