Note: What Good Muslim Friends Often Discuss vs What Shallow People Find Interesting

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ From the topics which shallow people and toxic friends discuss a lot:

1] People's flaws, disagreeable attributes and faults.
2] Recent rumors or unpleasant news about a mutual friend, acquaintance or celebrity.
3] The latest updates related to items and products on sale while finding most Islamic lectures unappealing.
4] Actually narcissistic and boastful talk about one's achievements or joys without any intention to motivate others to become better Muslims.
5] Pointless complaints regarding certain difficulties without aiming to solve problems, draining your energy by whining aimlessly.
🌻✨ From the outcomes of minimizing and avoiding dialogues with shallow people:
1] Conserving your time and energy for more meaningful, rewarding and worthwhile activities, such as reading more pages from the Noble Qur'an and studying Islam through reliable sources.
2] Protecting your account of deeds from accumulating the sins of Muslims who are being criticized in their absence or discussed negatively.
3] Improved inner state, enhanced preservation of your emotional well-being, and avoidance of bad vibes.
💬 🗨️ What righteous Muslims and the right kind of friends prefer to talk about:
1] Beneficial lessons they've learned from an Islamic lecture, class or gathering.
2] Sincere reminders to do more good deeds truthfully for Allah's sake like fasting Sunnah fasts and praying Taraweeh, Witr and Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl.
3] Helpful advice to relieve you from worries, words of encouragement, inspirational tips.
4] Ways to develop one's personality and strengthen one's faith Imaan, supporting one another to succeed in both worlds, with Allah's Will, as patient, faithful and dedicated Muslims.
5] Warnings against committing evil deeds and bid'ah (religious innovated acts), not feeling reluctant to correct each other's wrongs when necessary.
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📖 Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer who mixes with the people and endures their harm with patience has a greater reward than one who does not mix with the people nor endures their harm with patience."
Source: Musnad Ahmed 22588
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56 

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