Tips: 3 Qualities Which Make You Seem Intimidating And 3 Types Of People Who May Feel Intimidated By You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Three positive qualities which make you seem very "intimidating" and "unapproachable" by certain people: 

1] Your trust in Allah the Almighty, your strong faith / Imaan and confidence (not insecure arrogance) inspire you to be resilient, to take the initiative when necessary and to not quit instantly. 

2] It is obvious that you are incredibly selective and cautious regarding your choice of close friends. With Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala guiding you, you're not afraid to stand out and you don't oblige others to cheer for you constantly. 

3] Comparing yourself to other individuals and acting upon toxic feelings of jealousy due to inferiority complex are some of the things you refuse to do stubbornly. 

❎ What kind of person would hesitate to connect with you, as they find you intimidating? 

1] The one with low self-esteem, who feels inadequate (not good enough) around you and gets jealous easily. 

2] An untruthful person with a bad agenda, who seeks to manipulate people and take advantage of their kindness. Apparently they lost interest in getting to know you better once they've discovered that you have the guts to speak up, the potential to expose their lies, and the integrity to unapologetically detach from those who are dishonest.

3] A selfish narcissist who goes out of their way to anxiously avoid you since they don't want you stealing any of their joys or limelight.

~•~ 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe. The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/note-on-fearing-only-allah-almighty.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/poem-three-signs-that-youre-confident.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/poem-some-words-to-tell-yourself-to.html 

Tips: Suggested Morning Routine

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Suggested morning routine: 

1] Wake up at around 2:30 AM or 3:00 AM, saying the prescribed Du'a upon waking up, and say Istighfaar ("AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem") at least 100 times. 

2] Pray Salat At-Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl, at least two Sunnah Rak'ahs, and Salat Al-Witr if you didn't pray Witr after Salat Al-'Ishaa. 

3] Supplicate for at least ten to fifteen minutes, say Du'a and talk to Allah the Almighty while facing towards the Qiblah direction. 

4] If there are still several minutes left until the Adhaan of Fajr Salah, take a nap only if you can be sure that you won't oversleep or watch some beneficial videos and browse the net until it's time to pray Salat Al-Fajr. 

5] After praying the Fajr prayer, sit for a few minutes to say the morning Dhikr and Du'a, including: 

"AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem" 100 times,

"SubhanAllah wa Bihamdih" 100 times, 

And "laa ilaaha ilAllah Wahdahu laa shareekaLah LahulMulk wa LahulHamd wa Huwa 'alaa kulli shay-in Qadeer." 100 times. 

6] Read some Surahs from the Noble Qur'an including: 

Surah Al-Fatiha, Ayatul Kursi, the last two verses from Surah Al-Baqarah, Surah Yaseen, Surah Al-Waaqi'ah, Surah Al-Mulk, Surah Al-Kahf if it's Jumuah Friday, Surah Az-Zalzalah, Surah At-Takaathur, Surah Al-Kaafiroon, then three times Surah Al-Ikhlaas, Surah Al-Falaq and Surah An-Naas. 

Make it a habit, as much as possible, to read at least two pages from the Noble Qur'an every night and/or day for Allah's sake.

7] Have a nap after the morning Adhkaar or carry out some tasks (e.g. seeking authentic knowledge and listening to at least one Islamic lecture) and then pray Salat Ad-Duha anytime from after complete sunrise to around twenty minutes before Salat Adh-Dhuhr, at least two Sunnah Rak'ahs so your day can 

Inn-sha-Allah be filled with more barakah / blessings.

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever recites the ‘Verse of the Throne’ (Ayat Al-Kursi) after every prescribed (obligatory) prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entry into Paradise but death."

Source: Al-Mu’jam Al-Kabīr 7406

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Take advantage of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 9575

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-benefits-of-praying-tahajjud.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-my-brief-story-on-how-i-started.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/hadith-virtues-of-praying-sunnah-salat.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-join-those-who-pray-tahajjud-often.html 

https://abukhadeejah.com/five-authentic-modes-of-dhikr-after-the-salah/

Poem: The Effect Of Loving My Husband For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 The love I have for my spouse isn't ordinary, 

Not the same as the one shown in romantic movies 

Where the protagonists act in a way that's unreal 

And they teach you that marriage is meant to flawlessly 

Keep you happy like joy is the only mood to feel. 

~•~

Striving to love my husband for Allah's sake truly 

Has caused my faith/Imaan levels to vastly increase. 

With Allah's Will, I've learned to accept Allah's Decree, 

Check the bright side or merits of each difficulty, 

And maintain patience because the feelings are sincere. 

~•~

Patiently loving my husband for Allah's sake leads 

Me to value his well-being more than his money, 

His connection with Allah more than time spent with me, 

And his delight whenever he wants to remarry 

If I have defects when it comes to intimacy. 

~•~

Loving my other half solely for Allah's sake means 

I'll try my best with help from Allah the Almighty 

To take good care of my husband like we're in one team, 

Praying for him and coaching him regarding our Deen, 

And still being his wife if ever he remarries. 

~•~

The impact of loving him for Allah's sake revealed 

That the more you love your spouse for Allah sincerely, 

The more you can forgive him while polygyny seems 

Feasible, and though his frequent absence brings unease, 

Wanting him in Jannah makes tough loyalty easy.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-love-for-allahs-sake-and-marriage.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-love-your-husband-truly-for-allahs.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/poem-why-i-dont-get-tired-of-loving-my.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/note-undeniable-signs-that-man-married.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-nine-clear-signs-that-muslim-wifes.html