بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Note: Dear Allah Whoever Scammed And Mistreated Us In Any Way Show Them Your Justice In This World And On Judgment Day. Ameen.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

🖋️ Some minutes ago this morning Alhamdulillah I received a package of black ink refills. I actually ordered 50 black gel pens so I could also give some of them as gifts or as sadaqah then instead of receiving black pens I just received plastic black ink refills. While I understand they can still be useful and some of them may
Inn-sha-Allah fit other pens with consumed ink, they were not exactly the products which I ordered. Anyhow I sent a complaint to that store then blocked them on Shoppe and
Inn-sha-Allah they're included in my regular Du'as against those who have stolen from us, deceived and scammed us many times. The seller could've at least sent a message prior to delivering with something like "I'm sorry but the products you ordered are unavailable. Would it be okay to send you plastic black ink refills?"
But no they just sent the wrong items.

3 lessons learned:
1] Next time Inn-sha-Allah if a customer isn't in a hurry it is advisable and recommended for them to first check the contents of a package before giving the payment to the delivery guy / courier. And if the contents received are not precisely the ones which the customer ordered then we could send a complaint to the seller and give them a bad rating. In my case Alhamdulillah I sent a complaint to their chat box but I doubt they understand simple English then I gladly blocked them after giving an awful rating, while I will never deal with such store in the future Inn-sha-Allah. Plus, regularly
Inn-sha-Allah I can supplicate against them and whoever compelled them to send the incorrect items.
2] Sometimes some amount of your money is "wasted" or wrongly spent. Instances like this must train us to stay more patient for Allah's sake and to learn to avoid dealing with unreliable individuals in the present and future.
3] Allah the Almighty dislikes some people so much that He the Most Wise has to cause those individuals to mistreat some of His servants so those wrongdoers become the recipients of those oppressed Muslims' frequent Du'as against them. Such supplications can really change and alter someone's entire destiny so be careful of oppressing anybody particularly those who seek Allah's Help and Justice regularly.
While this isn't the first time I was scammed online I was disappointed somewhat because I was truly looking forward to distributing some of those pens to some Muslims. Maybe it's Allah's Qadr and Decree that those individuals don't receive any pen from me and those sellers due to their terrible lack of good character and integrity have become the destined recipients of my frequent Du'a/supplication against them.
HasbunAllah wa Ne'm Al-Wakeel.
O' Allah As-Samee' Al-Mujeeb, whoever scammed and mistreated us in any way, teach them a lesson for their lies and injustice in both worlds. Ameen.

Random Note: When An INTJ Is Uninterested In Chatting And Prolonging Conversations

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

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❓ Question: Construct 13 informative and factual sentences which begin with "Trust me, an INTJ-A even they have some free time to spare will not bother chatting with you if you..." And "It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if..."

🌐 Meta AI: Here are 13 sentences:

Trust me, an INTJ-A, even they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if:

1. You consistently lack depth or substance in your conversations.
2. Your topics of interest are too superficial or mundane.
3. You frequently interrupt or don't actively listen.
4. Your arguments are based on emotions rather than logic.
5. You're overly dramatic or attention-seeking.
6. Your values or beliefs conflict with their rational principles.
7. You dismiss or ignore their insightful observations.
8. Your communication style is too vague or ambiguous.
9. You fail to respect their need for alone time or space.
10. Your questions or topics are too repetitive or unoriginal.
11. You don't challenge their ideas or engage in meaningful debates.
12. Your behavior is inconsistent or unpredictable. (and you're simply unreliable and untrustworthy, in their opinion)
13. You disregard their boundaries or dismiss their assertiveness.

And here are 13 additional sentences starting with "It goes without saying":

It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if:

1. You're not willing to engage in intellectually stimulating discussions.
2. Your thoughts and opinions lack originality or creativity.
3. You're overly dependent on others for emotional validation.
4. Your decision-making process is impulsive or uninformed.
5. You're unwilling to consider alternative perspectives.
6. Your actions contradict your stated values or principles.
7. You're not open to constructive criticism or feedback.
8. Your priorities are driven solely by emotions or personal gain.
9. You fail to acknowledge or respect their expertise.
10. Your interactions are too focused on small talk or pleasantries.
11. You're not genuinely interested in learning or growth.
12. Your behavior is manipulative or exploitative.
13. You disregard the importance of honesty and transparency.

Keep in mind that these sentences are general insights into INTJ preferences and may not apply to every individual.

💻 ChatGPT: 1. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you constantly engage in small talk or talk without substance.
2. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you repeatedly make shallow, inappropriate or untruthful comments.
3. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you lack intellectual curiosity or refuse to learn about what they value.
4. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you are excessively emotional or irrational in your thinking.
5. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you show no interest in meaningful or deep conversations.
6. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you constantly seek attention or validation without offering any significant value in return.
7. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you repeatedly make the same mistakes without attempting to learn or grow.
8. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you show no respect for their time or boundaries.
9. Trust me, an INTJ-A, even if they have some free time to spare, will not bother chatting with you if you don't respect their need for solitude and focus at times.
10. It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if you display a lack of ambition or a clear direction in life.
11. It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if you show an unwillingness to think critically or welcome new perspectives.
12. It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if you engage in drama or childish gossip, preferring conflict over rational discourse.
13. It goes without saying, any INTJ would never bother approaching you if you are quick to judge others or lack the capacity for empathy and logical reasoning or understanding.

❓ Question: What would most INTJs do to signal and make it clear they are uninterested in chatting with you and they regard you as very unreliable?
💻 ChatGPT: INTJs are typically direct and strategic in their communication, and if they want to signal that they are uninterested in chatting or regard you as unreliable, they might do so in a few key ways:

1. **Short and Brief Responses**: INTJs often value efficiency and might respond with minimal effort, using short, non-committal answers like "Okay," "Sure," or "I see." They may avoid elaborating or engaging in further conversation.

2. **Delayed Responses**: If they are purposefully withdrawing, they might take longer than usual to reply or stop responding altogether, signaling a lack of interest.

3. **Avoiding Initiating Contact**: An INTJ who is uninterested in further conversation will likely stop initiating communication. They won't reach out or make efforts to maintain the conversation.

4. **Flat or Neutral Tone**: Their tone may become more neutral or distant. If they feel someone is unreliable, they might not express warmth or enthusiasm, and may even be blunt or matter-of-fact.

5. **Lack of Personal Engagement**: INTJs usually prefer meaningful interactions. If they find someone unreliable, they may avoid sharing personal thoughts or insights and focus only on surface-level matters.

6. **Explicit Honesty**: If they're feeling particularly direct, an INTJ may just tell you that they don’t have time for unreliable people, or that they don’t find the conversation worth continuing.

7. **Setting Boundaries**: An INTJ might explicitly state their limits in terms of communication. For example, they may tell you they are too busy to engage or that they don’t tolerate unreliability in their personal or professional life.

8. **Changing the Subject or Diverting**: If they don’t want to engage with you on a particular topic, an INTJ might subtly or overtly change the subject to something neutral, signaling they aren’t invested in the current conversation.

9. **Withdrawing from Group Interactions**: If you’re part of a larger group, an INTJ may distance themselves from you in group settings, avoiding one-on-one interaction and only participating minimally when necessary. This allows them to disengage without creating conflict. 

These are all ways an INTJ might quietly yet effectively communicate their disinterest or frustration with unreliability.

INTJs generally avoid drama and prefer to disengage in ways that are clear, but still efficient.

🌐 Meta AI: INTJs (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging) tend to value efficiency, logic, and reliability. Here are some common ways INTJs might signal disinterest or distrust:

*Verbal Cues:*

1. Brief, curt responses or monosyllabic answers.
2. Avoiding direct questions or changing the subject.
3. Using a formal, detached tone.
4. Not asking follow-up questions or showing interest.
5. Politely but firmly declining conversations.

*Nonverbal Cues:*

1. Minimal eye contact or avoiding eye contact.
2. Distracted or disengaged body language (e.g., checking phone, looking away).
3. Crossing arms or legs, indicating closure.
4. Not leaning in or facing you during conversations.
5. Reduced or absent physical gestures.

*Behavioral Indicators:*

1. Suddenly becoming busy or preoccupied.
2. Excusing themselves or ending conversations abruptly.
3. Not initiating conversations or interactions.
4. Avoiding shared activities or social events.
5. Limiting communication to essential or formal exchanges.

*Unreliability Signals:*

1. Questioning your facts or sources.
2. Challenging your logic or reasoning.
3. Expressing skepticism or doubt.
4. Avoiding commitments or promises.
5. Seeking additional information or verification.

*Direct Communication:*

In some cases, INTJs might explicitly state their disinterest or concerns:

1. "I'm not interested in discussing this further."
2. "I don't have time for this conversation."
3. "I question the accuracy of your information."
4. "I'm not comfortable sharing my thoughts with you."
5. "I need more reliable sources to support your claims."

Keep in mind that INTJs value honesty and directness. If they deem someone unreliable, they might choose to:

1. Limit interactions
2. Set clear boundaries
3. Seek alternative, more reliable sources
4. Consistently avoid relying on that person for important information in the present and future, as much as they can avoid
5. Reevaluate the connection or interaction

Remember, individual INTJs may exhibit these behaviors differently. Pay attention to consistent patterns and context to understand their intentions.