Poem: What You Can Do When You Discover That There Is No Person Whom You Can Trust

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 "What advice can you give to people who realized 

There's nobody whom they can trust in this current life?" 

Remind yourself firstly we have Allah the Most Wise. 

So long as just pleasing Allah is from our desires, 

We won't feel bothered if by Allah's slaves we're despised. 

~•~ 

If you find gossipers to your left, and to your right 

Are actors who pretend to like you while deep inside 

Lingers jealousy that's darker than black ants at night, 

And behind you are trolls that seek to spoil your spotlight, 

Trust Only Allah, and move forward to Paradise. 

~•~ 

Since most people are prone to envy, don't be surprised 

If those whom you surround oppose you most of the time, 

Despite your willingness to improve, share, and be kind, 

As jealous hearts can't stand strong faith/Imaan, cheerful vibes, 

And your passion to serve Allah keeps them terrified. 

~•~

It's fine if part of your temporary tests in life 

Is feeling like a lone outsider most of the time. 

Don't cling to people. Connect with Allah the Most Wise. 

Keep calm with Adhkaar, Qur'an, and prayers day and night, 

With true knowledge and good deeds which brighten your soul's light.

~•~

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Three things follow a deceased person (to the person's grave). Two of them return and one remains. His family, his wealth, and his deeds follow him. His family and wealth return, but his deeds remain (with the dead in their graves)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6149 

Sahih Muslim 2960

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56 

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Note: Three Probable Reasons Why Some Wives Like To Discuss Their Marriage Lives Online

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 If you're currently single, you've probably found yourself rolling your eyes, while scrolling through your Facebook news feed, whenever certain users would openly gush over their spouses and announce how blessed they are to be married for the nth time. At least once you may have debated with yourself, wondering if you should or shouldn't unfriend a particular user because you've gotten tired of their annoyingly repetitive posts about their love life. Constant exposure to cringeworthy content could frighteningly worsen your moods. 

Before confirming that you're allergic to people who brag about their marriages, make effort to figure out the probable sources of their eccentric behavior or seemingly insecure acts. 

Your relative, friend, or acquaintance who seems to enjoy boasting about her married status may not have any intention to make you feel jealous or insecure, but that's probably one of her coping mechanisms when dealing with certain challenges, including: 

1] Resisting unwanted or inappropriate feelings of attraction, so for Allah's sake she remains loyal to her husband: It could be that since she has an unexplainable crush on you or on somebody else, by emphasizing her love for her destined other half or soulmate, she believes she can effectively ignore the attractiveness of people whose relatable qualities act as distractions. 

2] Dismissing, avoiding, or brushing off desperate love-seekers many of whom don't get the hint that she's contentedly married: By publicly declaring that she's grateful to be her husband's wife on a regular basis, she aims to terminate the interest of bored users who fill up her inbox with unnecessary greetings and flirtatious messages. 

3] Trying to survive and thrive in a competitive atmosphere as a co-wife: Occasionally stating how happy she is with her husband could be an indirect message to his other wife/wives that they're all in this together and she has no plans whatsoever to leave him. 

Truly confident individuals who don't have issues with inferiority complex are able to listen to a Muslim's inspirational stories and joyful announcements without going, "not again. Brace yourself for another episode of cringey romance." or "nobody cares.". With empathy, they'd try to imagine being in that person's place and conclude they probably would've behaved almost similarly if they were in the same position.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719

Sahih Muslim 2563

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Al-Bayhaqi reported: Hamdun Al-Qassar, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If one of your brothers commits an error, seek seventy excuses for him. If your hearts do not accept it, know that the fault is with yourselves.”

Source: Shu'ab Al-Imān 10436 

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