Note: For Allah's Sake Keep Loving Your Dear Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 When I married my husband at 20 years old while he was 28 in 2006 Shawwaal, I was very ignorant when it came to cooking. I acknowledge that to this day I'm one of those few females who lack actual culinary skills. 

On one occasion I cooked some pancakes for him. Since they weren't properly cooked from the inside, some of the liquid mixture was oozing out as he'd take every bite. I apologized to him about me being a terrible "chef" and he jokingly told me that it's okay, we can imagine that the uncooked part of the pancake is cream filling. 

From the undeniable signs that your husband loves you for Allah's sake is when he tries his best to have patience with your flaws, mistakes and shortcomings. If a woman can't do an impressive job in cooking, a caring husband would either stay patient with her incompetence and volunteer to do the cooking himself, buy take-outs or order food from restaurants often, hire somebody who's more capable to cook for them, or even motivate her to attend culinary school and pay for the courses which she decides to take. 

Likewise when a Muslimah does whatever she can to patiently keep loving the man whom Allah the Most Wise selected as her other half and soulmate, she'd be patient, tolerant, or accepting of his qualities which he can't change while persistently praying to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for her husband's gradual development and progress, aware that his perfect version can be thoroughly enjoyed 

Inn-sha-Allah in Jannah Paradise, not in this brief dunya where being completely flawless is unattainable.

~•~ 

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "I was shown the Hellfire and (found) that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 29

In-book reference: Book 2, Hadith 22

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 29 

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Poem: The Countless Ways That My Dear Husband Has Inspired Me

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 "In what ways does your husband inspire you to become 

A better Muslimah?" if I were asked that question, 

From the bottom of my heart I'd truthfully respond, 

"Since my spouse is a gift from Allah the Most Loving, 

Loving my travel buddy to Jannah has strengthened 

My faith/Imaan in countless ways, as my dear husband 

Inspired me to improve in contentment and patience." 

~•~

When he's out often with his friends or his employment, 

When he's busy caring for his mom or his patients, 

Or frequent stress at his workplace triggers his mood swings, 

He motivates me to perform wudhoo/ablution, 

Then I'd pray Sunnah prayers or start supplicating 

To Allah, asking Allah with fierce dedication 

To please keep this marriage blessed and protect my husband.

~•~ 

When hubby arrives, I can't stop myself from smiling, 

Grateful to Allah that my zawj has safely returned, 

Feeling more enlightened that angst isn't permanent, 

And aware that in Jannah is joy everlasting. 

My husband has taught me how to be a patient friend - 

If his replies are delayed, I'd choose to comprehend 

That despite his defects, he's still my special someone.

~•~ 

My husband, one of the best gifts Allah has given, 

Inspired me to enhance leniency and resilience, 

To be more loving and tolerant with my loved ones, 

And to resist quitting challenges in an instant. 

Sincerely I thank Allah for His wise selection, 

And for answering a Du'a when I was a teen. 

Loving my spouse inspired me more to always believe.

~•~

📖 Umm Salamah RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah (Paradise)."

[At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan]

Riyad As-Salihin 286

In-book reference: Introduction, Hadith 286

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Poem: Ways To Determine If A Wife's Love For Her Husband Is Authentic

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Any married woman can visibly claim that she 

"Loves" her husband for Allah when in reality 

She's wed to him for his status, nationality, 

And satisfies him with her body for his money, 

Or she protects her marriage to please her family. 

~•~ 

Don't look at wives who showcase their love through frequently 

Uploading sweet photos of themselves and their hubbies, 

Sharing romantic quotes, writing sappy poetry, 

Or reminding you how their marriage life is happy. 

You can't fake true love. When love is real, it's felt deeply. 

~•~ 

A Muslimah's love for her spouse is proven clearly 

When she lovingly says his name in prayers daily 

And nightly when she prays while most people are asleep. 

Since she's fiercely loyal, if one day Allah decreed 

That the guy needs divorce, she'd still love him inwardly. 

~•~ 

Stubbornly she won't quit loving him and patiently 

Praying for his return. Proposals that she'd receive 

From willing suitors would be rejected instantly. 

That proves her love is real. The man whom Allah wisely 

Gifted her as her spouse won't be ditched that easily.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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