💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 If someone were to ask, "As your husband's loyal wife,
How would you react if one day your husband arrived
To declare that he no longer wants you in his life?
What is your initial response if your spouse decides
To separate from you as he's fed up and too tired?"
~•~
I'd think, yet another test from Allah the Most Wise.
If this guy no longer wants me as his patient wife,
As he found another woman who clearly dislikes
How Muslim men can be married to up to four wives,
Then fine. I'm not the one who gave up. At least I tried.
~•~
I'd remain grateful to him though, thankful from inside,
That loving him for Allah's sake graciously inspired
Me to write numerous rhymes to inspire Muslim wives
To stay strong and steadfast in their destined marriage lives.
I'd still love him from afar, so long as he's alive.
~•~
I'd be the kind of ex-lover whose love hasn't died,
Who hopes that her ex-spouse proposes another time,
And who, with fierce determination, firmly declines
All marriage proposals from eager and willing guys.
Remarrying my ex would be a prize more desired.
~•~
I'd rather be a widow and wed a second time
Than ask for divorce only to regret from inside.
I'd rather be my husband's first wife, striving to thrive,
Than be divorced while shunning proposals from all guys.
Marriage isn't a joke, but a path to Paradise.
~•~
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is not absolutely necessary, the fragrance of Paradise will be forbidden to her."
Sunan Ibn Majah 2055
In-book reference: Book 10, Hadith 40
English translation: Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2055
📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"
Source: Sahih Muslim 2813
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
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