Poem: Don't Allow Some People's Envy And Insecurities Make You Feel "Unseen" Or "Underappreciated"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three reasons why around some people you don't feel "seen", 

Why after chatting with some users you don't receive 

Their replies anymore like they desire that you leave, 

Why though you're kind to some souls they're still distant and mean, 

And why numbers may not want you as part of their team: 

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One: Those who ignore your salaams or treat you rudely, 

Whether they're colleagues, strangers, siblings, or an auntie, 

Probably show disrespect due to clear jealousy, 

Or feeling threatened prompts them to spread their misery. 

The jealous and insecure tend to bully, clearly. 

~•~

Two: Those who can't answer you in a way that's timely, 

Or they've failed to assist you when you've expressed your needs, 

May be preoccupied with problems, really busy, 

In dire need to work hard so in both worlds they succeed, 

Or they didn't see your message. Hold on patiently.

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Three: Friends or family who maltreat you purposely 

Likely misbehave when they're suffering inwardly. 

They've got too much on their plate that they lack empathy, 

Like injured soldiers can't help the wounded properly. 

Rise above hurt pride. Retain your good manners wisely. 

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Allah sees and hears us each moment we speak and breathe. 

With Allah's Love, and with Taqwa, we're not incomplete. 

Ditch confiding in people to feel valued and heard. 

Don't confess secrets to humans, as what you reveal 

Could just lead to trouble, conflict, or sheer mockery.

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📖 Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah loves a servant who is righteous, independent, and obscure (unknown, not famous)."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2965

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is friendly, for there is no goodness in one who is neither friendly, nor befriended."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 8945

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Arna'ut

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Those in solitude have raced ahead." They said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are those in solitude ('al-mufarridoon')?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are men and women who remember Allah a lot."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2676

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Note: Virtues Of Fasting On Yawm 'Ashura (10th Of Muharram)

Today: 3rd of Muharram, Wednesday August 11

Muharram 9: Tuesday August 17

Muharram 10 (Yawm 'Ashura): Wednesday August 18

Muharram 11: Thursday August 19

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was asked about fasting the day of Arafat (Yawm 'Arafah) and he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It will expiate the sins of the previous and upcoming year." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was asked about fasting the day of Ashura (10th of Muharram) and he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It will expiate the sins of the past year."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1162

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Ibn Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam came to Medina and he found the Jews fasting on the day of Ashura. The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "What is this day that you are fasting?" They said, “This is a great day in which Allah saved Moses ('alaihis salaam) and his people, and he drowned Pharaoh and his people. Moses fasted on it due to gratitude, so we also fast on it.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "We (Muslims) are more deserving and are closer to Moses (Musa 'alaihis salaam) than you." The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam fasted the day of Ashura (10th of Muharram) and he commanded fasting on it.

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3216 

Sahih Muslim 1130

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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