Poem: Tips To Cope With LDR And How To Keep Loving Your Husband For Allah's Sake While He Works In Another Country/City

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five tips to cope as a faithful wife despite distance, 

To thrive as your husband's loyal soulmate with patience, 

To keep your love alive though you don't always see him, 

Whether his frequent absence is due to employment, 

Or with more than one wife he has lawful relations:

~•~ 

One: Trust Allah. Believe you'll triumph through LDR, 

Your love can stay strong no matter how far you're apart 

Physically, but deeply you're within each other's hearts.

Grow stronger in love when you pray for one another, 

And remain in touch for Allah through loving Du'as.

~•~

Two: The distress in missing your husband's sweet presence 

Isn't as distressing as not being wed to him. 

It's a blessing that this love was by Allah written 

And since you married with the sincerest intention, 

Your romance, with Allah's Will, can be everlasting.

~•~

Three: This marriage is blessed, as it helps you get tougher 

In faith/Imaan through maintaining Sabr and Shukr. 

Aware that the tests in dunya aren't forever 

And other wives worldwide are also in LDR, 

You strive for Allah, as your man's lover, not quitter.

~•~

Four: The miles between you and your husband don't lessen 

Your compassion for him, but rather it just strengthens 

Your loyalty for Allah with heartfelt commitment. 

Missing him inspires you to increase supplications, 

And in connecting with Allah you find contentment.

~•~

Five: When certain couples flaunt their love for each other, 

You're moved to make your love for your spouse even deeper, 

Unwilling to quit on him, like a fierce go-getter, 

Eager for Allah's Love each time you practice Sabr, 

Praying you and your zawj enter Jannah together.

~•~

Though anytime you can request for separation 

Specially when silent moments become worrisome, 

It's amazing how you choose to keep on loving him, 

Knowing that challenges on earth aren't permanent, 

And your love can't change, as it's real since the beginning.

~•~

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Unfollow Toxic Users Without Remorse

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Toxic users are like cigars. The more you absorb 

Their negative vibes, willful lies and gossipy words, 

The weaker your resolve or the more you doubt yourself. 

They're toxic if their acts make you question your self-worth 

And spending time around them mostly makes you feel worse.

~•~

Their Facebook timeline contains passive-aggressive posts, 

Complaints about people whom they envy and don't know, 

Links to talks by speakers whose values are still unknown, 

And offline they act as though they're shy and humble souls 

Yet when amongst their likes, they backbite about their foes.

~•~

They're toxic because your level of faith Imaan goes 

Low and declines whenever their true colors are shown - 

Jealous of your goals, too selfish to offer support, 

Doubtful of your motives, suspicious of what you hold, 

Unable to advise, and not empathic at all.

~•~

When you speak or contribute, their eyes they often roll, 

Tired of hearing you talk yet loathe it when they're unheard. 

Since they're pros at gossip, to them secrets can't be told. 

Take their wretched traits as examples to not follow, 

While praying to Allah they someday forgo their wrongs.

~•~

Unfollow what they post and do online to uphold 

Your dedication to serve Allah with good morals.

Firm decision to lessen contact doesn't connote 

That you're prideful, but you're merely protecting your soul 

From obstacles which distract or lead to one's downfall.

~•~

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”

Source: ‘Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

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Poem: Your Choice To Either Keep Loving Someone For Allah's Sake Or To Leave Them If Their Presence Isn't A Blessing

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Just as your coffee gets cold when you leave it untouched 

And flowers wither when they're not well taken care of, 

Love between spouses and friends can decrease in impact 

Gradually if both sides take each other for granted, 

Until one decides to give up when they've had enough.

~•~

When you purposely ignore your partner or a friend, 

Trying to grab their attention through silent treatment, 

Indirectly you train them to be independent 

And content without your presence till their concern ends.

Blame your pride if one day they agree on detachment.

~•~

Nonetheless, Allah gifted some souls with inner strength, 

Outstanding patience, understanding and tolerance 

With their loved ones, and their affection can't be questioned. 

Despite the beloved persons' faults and shortcomings, 

They still love them for Allah with stubborn persistence.

~•~

If your coffee got cold, you can enjoy it with ice, 

Or cook mocha flavored pancakes when you feel inspired.

Dead roses and dried plants can be nicely utilized 

As ornaments on journals creatively designed, 

Around mirror frames and vases indoors or outside.

~•~

So you see, you've got the freedom and ability 

To keep loving some for Allah with fierce loyalty, 

Or terminate connections that bring more misery. 

Whether you choose to stay in touch or ditch somebody, 

Ensure your choice leads to Allah and your heart's at peace.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "You will not enter Paradise until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love each other. Shall I show you something that, if you did, you would love each other? Spread peace (salaam) between yourselves."

Source: Sahih Muslim 54, Grade: Sahih

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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