Poem: Love Doesn't Hurt If It's Lawful And Purely For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Love hurts? No. Love doesn't hurt when it's for Allah's sake. 

When loving the man whom Allah chose as your soulmate 

And travel partner to Jannah is not one bit fake, 

Your faith/Imaan level doesn't drop but escalates 

And though your spouse is busy, you don't go through heartaches. 

~•~ 

When love is real, all for Allah, not just "for display", 

You feel motivated to strive, you're willing to wait 

For your friend's return when he's been gone for many days, 

And patience is a trait you easily cultivate 

Which makes it easy to forgive when mistakes are made. 

~•~ 

"Love" hurts? Yes, when that "love" is toxic, clearly misplaced, 

Mispositioned, messed up, and designed to formulate 

Dangerous pathways to zina which Allah forbade,

Like lusting over someone whose gender is the same 

As yours or flirting with somebody you can't obtain.

~•~

Sinful "love" aches because it's from shaytan's silly games 

To distract you from thriving upon Allah's Straight Way. 

To defeat the devil's plots and not be led astray, 

Discard thorns of ignorance and bravely educate 

Yourself more about Islam to enhance Imaan/faith. 

~•~

If it must be done, from every "crush" stay far away, 

Lessen needless interactions and control your gaze. 

Distractions ditched for Allah can someday be replaced 

By rewards for patience you maintain each night and day, 

With Allah's Love and guarantee to reach Jannah's gates.

~•~ 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Tips: Seven Things Which Narcissists Can't Do And How To Recognize Them On Social Media

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Seven things which many narcissists refuse to do because of kibr/arrogance: 

1] Most narcissists don't have the courage or actual confidence to do something which they're not entirely sure of because they fear the likelihood of embarrassment and making mistakes. They want people to witness that they're completely "perfect" and free from flaws. AstaghfurAllah Al-'Atheem. 

2] Since a lot of narcissists can't admit that they've made a mistake or misjudgment whenever they're clearly wrong about something, they hate making apologies. If self-interest or necessity compels them to say sorry, they'd apologize but begrudgingly while having no plans to rectify their errors. 

3] Seeing how narcissists generally get jealous of others, as they aspire to be "better than everybody", giving sincere compliments and words of encouragement are too difficult for them to do. 

4] Because narcissists care more about their selfish selves, ego and public image, they frequently invent lies or conceal certain truths to preserve positive reputation. Keeping your secrets, fulfilling promises, proving they're trustworthy, following through plans and defending you when you require support are from the challenging tasks which they won't do unless bribery is involved. 

5] Showing gratitude and thanking you for favors oftentimes cause them to feel "fake" or "artificial" because in reality they don't appreciate most people and can't genuinely thank you for what you can offer. A lot of narcissists are also too arrogant to ask for help, wrongly believing that "they don't need people at all, but people need them to survive". 

6] Narcissists typically reject admonitions and advice coming from anybody whom they perceive as "incompetent", "delusional", "uneducated", "insignificant" or "not up to standard" even if the tips they receive can improve their condition or religious well-being. 

7] Inability to attentively listen to people's problems, concerns and suggestions is common among those struggling with narcissism. If you send a message requesting them to advise you about something or asking them for a favor, they commonly leave you on "seen mode" or claim they'll get back to you later only to return after a long period of prideful silence and this time they're demanding you to pay attention to them. 

💻🚩 Three obvious signs of narcissists on social media: 

1] Frequent uploading of self-aggrandizing selfies and group photos a lot of which are filtered or photoshopped. 

2] Displaying interest in watching and sharing TikTok videos more than listening to beneficial Islamic lectures. 

3] Regularly gossiping or ranting on their online updates concerning individuals whom they can't stand. Collecting fans to dislike a particular individual through whining about them on their Facebook timelines, not with a motive to warn others against dangerous persons but to comfort their own emotional wounds. 

May Allah the Almighty forgive all of our faults and keep us away from every unpleasant characteristic which He dislikes including selfishness and kibr/arrogance. Ameen.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Charity does not decrease wealth, no one forgives another but that Allah increases his honor, and no one humbles himself for the sake of Allah but that Allah raises his status."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2588

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah is Beautiful and He loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith in his heart will enter Hellfire."

Source: Sahih Muslim 91

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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