Poem: Advice To The Heartbroken And Those Who Think They're "Still In Love"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Note to those who think they've moved on but "love" still lingers 

In their hearts for certain souls who, like magnets, captured 

Their attention and who can't be with their admirers: 

Embrace the truth. You weren't meant to be together.

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Whether you're both single, or you're both blessed with partners, 

Or one is wed to a guy who doesn't deserve her, 

Push yourself to move on and detach from each other. 

Expect initial distance to taste sour and bitter.

~•~

Have nearly the same stamina as tough weightlifters 

Who stick to strict diets and work out to grow stronger, 

Or female athletes who aspire to become slimmer, 

Avoiding specific foods despite frequent hunger.

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Habitually fast Sunnah fasts to enhance Sabr.

Train yourself to patiently accept Allah's Qadr.

Control your nafs for Allah's sake, obey His Orders,

And know the outcomes of zina should make you shudder.

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Visualize zina as wild dragons emitting fire, 

A golden closet inside of which are sharp daggers, 

Man-eating sharks eager to swallow naive swimmers, 

Or con-artists who trick you with nothing to offer. 

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It's shaytan who decorates sin - that cunning trickster, 

Who adorns abhorrent acts with fake vows and glitter. 

With strong faith and Taqwa, you can conquer his whispers,

Substitute them with thoughts of death, Du'as and Dhikr.

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If after all those battles, your "feelings" still linger, 

And you're "still crushing hard" though you don't see each other, 

Still be Allah's warrior, earn rewards for your Sabr, 

Till you enter Jannah where hearts can never suffer.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Hellfire is veiled by lusts (desires), and Paradise is veiled by hardships."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6122

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If the sins of a servant are numerous and he does not have good deeds to compensate, Allah will afflict him with sadness as an expiation for him."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 24708

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Abu Qatadah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, you will never leave anything for the sake of Allah the Almighty but that Allah will replace it with something better."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 22565

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "O young men, if you are able to support a wife, get married. Verily, it lowers the gaze and guards chastity. Whoever is not able to do so, he must fast as it will discipline his desires."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 1806

Sahih Muslim 1400

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Tips: Signs Of Intuitive People Whose Intuition Comes From Allah The Almighty

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Seven signs of intuitive people and their intuition (not suspicion nor delusional guesses) is a gift from Allah the Almighty:

1] Numerous times you were able to determine correctly that an event would be cancelled or someone who agreed to meet you at a specific time will most likely cancel their decision. You weren't surprised with the cancellation as though you anticipated it because the people you dealt with have proven themselves to be untrustworthy, or you were able to spot patterns indicating low chances of the meeting occuring.

2] Many of your lucid dreams are so memorable and carry warnings or signs from Allah the Most Wise, some of which later come true. For instance, while I was in Saudi Arabia trying to have my visa renewed, and my husband remained in the Philippines, I saw him in a dream with a strange woman and a baby boy. I woke up feeling anxious about it only to discover after some months or so that I became my husband's first wife and he did have a son with her. Alhamdulillah I'm still very accepting of polygyny.

3] You typically feel as if you're being watched (Of course Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala closely observes us at all times and some of His Angels are assigned to record our actions), as though there are surveillance cameras around, and if somebody tries to display any form of disrespect, you imagine yourself being in a prank show which inspires you to react in a way that you believe is most fair, logical or sensible.

4] Whether you classify yourself as an empath or not, you can easily tell if a person is envious of you, making obnoxious effort to make you feel jealous of them, or deceitfully acting in a manner to provoke you. This causes you to be significantly selective regarding who you socialize with and confide in. 

5] You have the ability to sense people's vibes and identify if their soul's energy is compatible with yours. If you're one of those souls who are ambitiously enthusiastic about attaining Allah's Love and you intensely despise negative qualities such as the tendency to falsely accuse others or envy, you gravitate towards the sincerely pious and authentically confident Muslims that are a minority.

6] Oftentimes you can accurately guess the reasons for some individuals' behavior and misconduct. So-and-so didn't answer your salaam despite you greeting them in an audible voice because their insecure mother ordered them to act like they're ignoring you, a taxi driver without passengers didn't pull over as he already had an appointment or he wasn't entirely sure if you needed transportation, a friend didn't invite you to a gathering with mutual friends either to get back at you for not inviting them to an outing you set up in the past or they assumed you were too busy with other tasks.

7] When you've decided to do something or dismiss a plan because of your gut instinct or intuition which Allah the Most Merciful granted, you have no doubts at all, zero feelings of remorse and guilt afterwards. Hence if you unfriended some users because you could sense they were intentionally disrespectful towards you, you don't bother looking back to reflect, "maybe it's a mistake to disconnect from them". You know with absolute certainty from inside that your choice was the right one, specifically if doing so leads you closer to Allah's Love and your faith/Imaan being strengthened.

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📖 Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of the intuition of the believer. Verily, he sees with the Light of Allah." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam recited the verse, “Verily, in that are signs for those of discernment.” (The Noble Qur'an 15:75)

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3127

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Haythami

Ibn Al-Qayyim (May Allah have mercy on him. Ameen.) said, “It is a light that Allah bestows in the heart of His servant, by which he distinguishes between truth and falsehood, advantage and disadvantage, the honest and the liar.”

Source: Madārij Al-Sālikīn 2/453

📖 Abu Tha’laba RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, tell me what is lawful and unlawful for me.” The Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Righteousness is serenity in the soul and peace of mind in the heart. 

Sin is not serene in the soul and not pleasant to the heart, even if the judge gives you approval."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 17396 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A man asked the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, “What is faith?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “If you are happy with your good deeds and saddened by your bad deeds, then you are a believer.” The man said, “O Messenger of Allah, what is sin?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If something waivers in your soul (disturbs you), then you should leave it."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 21695 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Hadith: The Mercy Of The Noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam Towards Children

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, I might begin the prayer and I intend to prolong it, but then I hear the crying of an infant. I will shorten the prayer as I know his crying will distress his mother."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 678

Sahih Muslim 470

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever does not show mercy to our young ones, or acknowledge the rights of our elders, is not one of us."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 7033

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Ahmed Shakir

📖 Shidad Ibn Al-Had RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam came out to us for one of the evening prayers and he was carrying his grandson Hasan, or Husayn. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam came forward and put him down, then began the prayer with exaltation and prayed. He prostrated at the end of his prayer for a long time. I raised my head and the child was upon the Prophet's back while he was prostrating, so I returned to my prostration. When the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam finished the prayer, people said, “O Messenger of Allah, you prostrated at the end of your prayer for a long time, until we thought that something happened or you received a revelation.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "None of that that happened. Rather, my grandson was riding on my back and I disliked to rush him before he met his needs."

Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 1141

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani