๐ In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
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๐ Narcissists are like deluded spies who desperately wish to see your wrong reactions every time they flaunt their ugly lack of morals and take pride in their immature actions. Seven things which narcissists despise and regard as disappointing:
1] When you withhold from them sycophantic compliments while intentionally avoiding paying attention to whatever they want you to notice just to trigger you to feel "jealous" (their new look, pointless YouTube channels, and pretentious selfies which they frequently upload on social media etc.).
2] When you don't bother asking them personal questions about themselves in which they're granted bragging opportunities (such as "well, how did your trip go? Which hotels did you and your family stay at? Who did you network with? What's the story behind your name 'Yafayka Liyra'?" etc.)
3] When they know that you haven't asked about them after they've been away or absent from work or school for a significantly long period of time, particularly if you can sense they'll probably just invent another lie.
4] When they're "playing hard to get" or acting arrogantly aloof online and offline while you're actually uninterested in building any connection with them.
5] When you don't care enough to ask them "so how come you left the group chat?" after they fled from an online conversation, since with or without them there really isn't considerable difference.
6] When you faithfully continue loving the special souls for Allah's sake, including your parents and husband, whom they eagerly wanted you to quarrel with and abandon.
7] When you make it very clear that you're not envious of their tests and blessings at all. One evidence of you not harboring envy is your admirable maintenance of integrity and good manners even around toxic individuals like them.
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๐ Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance (kibr) in his heart will enter (Jannah) Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (The Almighty) is Beautiful and He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith (Imaan) in his heart will enter Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
