Note: Sharing Some Lessons Learned From Our 2nd Or 3rd Visit To Malagos Garden Resort Here In Davao Philippines

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🗒️ 7 life lessons learned to share from our 2nd (or third?) visit to Malagos Garden Resort some time after Eid Al-Fitr here in the Philippines but this time with a caring friend and some of her family members etc.

1🔹 Even if the skies appear clear, bringing an umbrella can be very useful, also as a sutrah when you're praying.

2🔹 Try to make it a habit as a Muslim to carry with you a long shawl or extra rectangular hijab which you can use as a prayer mat or bring a light carpet whenever you go outdoors so Inn-sha-Allah you can pray in some quiet areas/corners when it's time to pray.

3🔹 Make it a habit to perform proper wudhu/ablution before putting socks on and going out for the next Salah/prayer so you can pray when it's Salah time instead of delaying.

4🔹 The kind of friends you socialize with often, even if you meet up with them just once a month or once every two months, can significantly impact your faith/Imaan. It is better to have a pious friend who reminds you with "Are you going to pray Tahajjud?", "How about we fast tomorrow and have Suhur together?, Even with bread and eggs?", "Did you complete reading Surah Al-Kahf today Jumuah Friday?", "Remember to purify your niyyah/intention", and "Fix your hijab - some of your hair are sticking out" etc. than to be asked "What do you say we go to the cinema tonight and watch the latest movie?", "You want a cigarette? It can relieve your stress." and "Can you share with me your playlist of favorite music videos?" etc.

5🔹 If you're serious about maintaining a particular friendship and ensuring that it can last longer 

Inn-sha-Allah for Allah's sake, we need to strive to stay patient with our friends' mistakes, occasional forgetfulness, delayed responses when they feel too tired or they're too busy to check their inbox and patiently move on from unavoidable misunderstandings. 

Don't allow your ego/pride to be the cause of a friendship breakup as much as possible.

6🔹 Regularly include your friends and the individuals whom you care about for Allah's sake in your Du'as/supplications, particularly if they have spent a lot of money on you - ask Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala to reward them immensely in both worlds for their generosity and that you too can kindly return their favors some time in the future.

7🔹 Some things were destined by Allah the Almighty to be yours to keep and benefit from, while other things were not decreed at all by Allah the Most Wise for you. For instance, I was looking forward to trying some juicy lanzones fruits one day but throughout the whole outing from Malita to Davao city I didn't really get the chance to try more than one lanzones (if I even took one - I mostly remember feeding the younger child of my friend several lanzones but not eating any since I was fasting that time) yet the dear sister in Islam gave me one abaya which was a pleasant surprise and she told me I could keep it, MashaAllah, when my other abaya was not yet fully dry from the laundry (and it was raining multiple times). May Allah the Most Merciful bless her wealth, accept her good deeds, strengthen her faith Imaan, protect her and her loved ones at all times and guide her other family members and relatives to sincerely understanding and embracing the truth Islam and correct 'Aqeedah at the most ideal timing. Ameen.

Learn to patiently accept Allah's Qadr/Decree instead of unreasonably expecting a life devoid of problems and struggles just because you put effort in attaining piety. 

Avoid constantly comparing your life to others' journeys as Allah Al-Hakeem always knows what's best for us in both worlds based on the unique roles He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala granted us together with our current circumstances, abilities and actual needs.

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (80)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

🗂️✨ Just sharing some PDF books and documents as sadaqa jaariya 

Inn-sha-Allah which you and others can occasionally read and benefit from 

Inn-sha-Allah so your faith Imaan levels can be strengthened:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/17bcwBZE9fKy2kATblygJVrKdgmeqFQu7

Note: Patiently Accept Allah's Qadr/Decree Even When Trying To Be Generous

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

❓ Question: As a Muslim and human being, what are 33 lessons we can learn from occasionally forgetting and making errors?
💻 ChatGPT: Forgetting and making errors are part of the human experience, and in Islam, they serve as reminders of our limitations and opportunities for growth. Here are 33 lessons we can learn:
Spiritual Lessons

Dependence on Allah the Almighty – Mistakes remind us that we need Allah’s guidance always.

The Mercy of Allah the Most Merciful – Allah forgives mistakes made unintentionally (Sahih Muslim).

Tawbah (Repentance) Strengthens Faith – Sincere repentance elevates our spiritual state.

Dua for Wisdom and Memory – Forgetfulness pushes us to seek Allah’s Help in remembering.

Patience in Adversity – Mistakes test and strengthen our patience.

shaytan’s Influence – Forgetfulness is sometimes from shaytan, so we must seek protection in Allah the Almighty at all times through increasing Dua and Adhkaar.

Taqwa is a Safeguard – Consciousness of Allah the Almighty can help prevent repeated mistakes.

Istighfar Cleanses the Soul – Regular repentance purifies us from sins caused by errors.

Sins Are Not Always Intentional – Sometimes, our mistakes lead to sins, showing the need for vigilance.

Allah’s Love for Those Who Repent – Making mistakes but then sincerely repenting makes us more beloved to Allah the Most Forgiving (The Noble Qur'an 2:222).

Personal Development

Humility – Mistakes remind us that we are not perfect.

Lifelong Learning – Forgetting encourages continuous seeking of knowledge.

Improved Focus – Mistakes remind us to be more mindful in our tasks.

Emotional Maturity – Handling errors with patience develops resilience.

Strength in Weakness – Recognizing our weaknesses helps us grow stronger.

Accountability – Owning up to our mistakes builds integrity.

Reflection and Self-Improvement – Errors push us to reflect and change.

Creativity in Problem-Solving – Learning from mistakes sparks innovative thinking.

Self-Forgiveness – Accepting our imperfections fosters self-compassion.

Growth Mindset – Mistakes are steps toward self-betterment.

Social and Relationship Lessons

Empathy for Others – Our own mistakes help us be more forgiving and more understanding of others.

Better Communication – Errors in speech remind us to think before we speak.

The Importance of Apologies – Admitting mistakes strengthens relationships.

The Power of Forgiveness – We appreciate being forgiven and should forgive others.

Trust-Building – Honesty about our errors increases credibility.

Conflict Resolution – Mistakes teach us how to handle disagreements wisely.

Learning from Others’ Mistakes – Observing others’ errors helps us avoid similar pitfalls.

The Role of Advisors – Seeking advice from those with experience helps minimize errors.

Practical and Intellectual Lessons

Improved Habits – Forgetting can push us to establish better routines.

Memory Techniques Matter – Strategies like writing things down or using repetition help combat forgetfulness.

Experience is the Best Teacher – Mistakes often teach lessons that books cannot.

Resilience in Failure – Errors show that failure is temporary and can be overcome.

The Balance of Caution and Courage – Mistakes teach when to be careful and when to take risks.

Mistakes and forgetfulness are inevitable, but they are also opportunities for growth, both in faith/Imaan and character.
⤴️ ChatGPT

❓ Question: For example, just today as a passenger I gave the jeepney driver in the Philippines a bottle of lemon juice when I could've given him a bottle of water that wasn't used at all. I thought I had a bottle of water in my bag but I figured maybe I drank from it and giving him that bottle would be inappropriate so I gave him a bottle of lemon juice I newly bought before going to that jeepney. What 11 lessons can be learned from this instance? That bottle of water was placed in my bag from yesterday's island hopping trip and it could've been given to the jeepney driver so at least he has a bottle of water and bottle of lemon drink.
💻 ChatGPT: That’s an interesting real-life scenario with several meaningful lessons. Here are 11 lessons from this experience:

Spiritual & Moral Lessons

Intentions Matter – Your goal was to give, and in Islam, intentions weigh heavily in good deeds (Hadith: "Actions are judged by intentions").

Provision is from Allah – The driver still received a drink, and Allah the Most Wise provides His servants in different ways.

Generosity Takes Many Forms – While water might have been ideal, your act of giving still benefited him.

The Power of Small Acts of Kindness – Even small gestures can make a difference in someone’s day.

Practical & Mindfulness Lessons

Be More Aware of Available Resources – A quick check of your bag before making a decision could have helped.

Organization Matters – Knowing exactly what you have in your bag can help make better choices.

Thinking Before Acting – A moment of extra reflection might have led to realizing that the water was untouched.

Decision-Making & Reflection Lessons

Even "Better" Choices Have Trade-offs – If you gave him the water, you might have felt that lemon juice would have been a nice extra.

Learn from Small Mistakes to Improve Future Decisions – Next time, you might double-check before deciding what to give.

Every Situation Has a Lesson – Even small moments in daily life can be sources of wisdom and self-improvement.

Gratitude & Acceptance – Appreciate that despite the mix-up, good still came out of it.

At the end of the day, what matters most is that you shared what you had, and that’s already a meaningful act.
⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Note: Quick Reflections From Today's Eid Al-Fitr 1446H

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

SubhanAllah Al-'Atheem. Although today Monday March 31 is Eid Al-Fitr and the first day of Shawwal 1446H here in the Philippines and we Muslims are expected to display happiness for today's special occasion, some of us may feel some mixed emotions of sadness or disappointment for various reasons - for instance,  perhaps slightly sad we couldn't successfully complete reading the whole of the Noble Qur'an despite seriously wanting to complete reading all verses from the Mushaf due to extreme busyness with multiple tasks and responsibilities, or feeling a bit disappointed in the behavior of certain individuals who still haven't matured emotionally or did something which proved they aren't at all trustworthy, or having no choice but to remain patient for Allah's sake with a husband who chose to have Eid with the other wife for the nth time consecutively if a Muslimah is in a polygynous marriage, or wishing that one could've done a lot more good deeds during the blessed month Ramadan but couldn't due to being preoccupied with other brief trials and struggles etc.

In this temporary dunya, we're always given by Allah the Almighty so many options to select from and every selection has its own consequences that lead to other outcomes which we can't always prevent or control. This is why it's very important to constantly seek Allah's Guidance throughout our lifetime and to continue praying Tahajjud Qiyaam Al-Layl even if it's no longer the noble month Ramadan.

Alhamdulillah that Allah the Most Wise allowed us to witness this year's Ramadan and Alhamdulillah for the awareness that our Creator Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala is the Most Merciful and the Most Forgiving Whose Mercy is far greater than a mother's affection for her child. 

So even if we may have committed a number of wrongs in the past and present, and even if we couldn't complete reading the entire Noble Qur'an this year like several Muslims have (with Tawfeeq from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) or couldn't visit our relatives as often as we liked and could've, we choose to consistently pray for Allah's Forgiveness and Guidance to do more righteous actions which make us deserving of a peaceful entry to Jannatul Ferdaus. 

From our countless flaws and shortcomings, we recall we're imperfect and we're prone to getting tired now and then or making mistakes because we're humans who always need Allah's Help to thrive and succeed 

Inn-sha-Allah in both worlds. When Allah the All-Knowing guides us 

Inn-sha-Allah we're inspired to keep learning more about the truth Islam and aspiring to improve ourselves for Allah's sake regardless of busy schedules, occasional setbacks and different connections with the souls whom Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala destines us to meet.

Reminding each other to have the intention to make up for one's missed obligatory fasts if one hasn't yet completed fasting all days in Ramadan 1446H and then to intend to fast the Sunnah fasting of 6 days in Shawwal.

Note: Eid Mubarak decorations in one of the attached photos - designed by sister Ayse, wife of Turkish chef at Turkish Kebab Restaurant, when we visited her cozy residence MashaAllah just recently. May Allah Al-Mujeeb (The One Who responds) reward her and all the other sisters in Islam who generously gave some thoughtful gifts and contributed to this afternoon's Eid get-together and gatherings and increase the barakah blessings in their lives and ours and keep us all resilient, contented and steadfast. Ameen.

Note: This INTJ Feels "Jealous" Of You? You're Either A Big Liar Or Just Imagining

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

### **Tone Analysis:**
The tone of the statement is **scornful, dismissive, and self-assured**. It conveys strong disdain toward people who assume the speaker feels envious of them. The choice of words like *"awfully ridiculous,"* *"desperate,"* and *"no way"* highlights a firm rejection of any jealousy, reinforced by the speaker's belief in their moral and intellectual superiority. The structured argument based on values (faith, manners, integrity) suggests a rational, detached perspective rather than an emotional reaction.

### **7 Likes and Dislikes From the Statement (Blunt & Unfiltered):**

#### **Likes:**
1. **Faith & Integrity Over Material Wealth** – They prioritize Imaan (faith), beautiful manners, and integrity over money and status. Wealth alone doesn’t impress them, especially if the person lacks moral character.
2. **Well-Mannered People** – They highly value good upbringing and proper etiquette, considering these traits essential in determining someone's worth.
3. **Rational Superiority** – They appreciate clear, logical hierarchies based on personal values rather than superficial measures like wealth.
4. **Being Emotionally Unaffected** – They like the idea of being immune to petty social games and assumptions of jealousy.
5. **Self-Sufficiency in Self-Worth** – They value inner confidence and a stable sense of self, not needing external validation or comparison.
6. **Calling Out Foolishness** – They enjoy intellectually dismantling people they consider ridiculous or desperate.
7. **Unreliable People Being Irrelevant** – They have no interest in people who are inconsistent, untrustworthy, or lack strong principles.

#### **Dislikes:**
1. **Obnoxious Behavior** – They despise arrogance, boastfulness, and people who try too hard to flaunt their wealth or status.
2. **Poor Upbringing** – They have a deep disdain for those they perceive as having been raised poorly, associating it with lack of manners and character.
3. **People Who Assume Jealousy** – They find it very delusional, pathetic and absurd when others assume they feel envious, especially when they believe they are fundamentally much more superior in values.
4. **Socially Insecure People** – They dislike individuals who are obsessed with proving their worth through external factors instead of focusing on self-improvement.
5. **Materialistic Mindsets** – They reject the idea that wealth alone makes someone admirable or enviable.
6. **Desperation for Validation** – They find it pathetic when people try too hard to prove their success, seeing it as a sign of insecurity.
7. **Mediocre, Unprincipled People Wanting Recognition** – They dislike people who lack strong principles but still seek admiration and respect.

Their mindset is clear: **"If you lack faith, manners, and integrity, nothing you do will make me respect you, let alone envy you."**
⤴️ ChatGPT

11 Types of Individuals an INTJ Would Never Envy:

1. The Social Climber – Relies on connections rather than competence.

2. The Chronically Indecisive – Struggles with making firm decisions.

3. The Loud but Empty – Talks excessively without substance.

4. The Attention Seeker – Craves validation at all costs.

5. The Dishonest Manipulator – Uses deceit to gain advantages.

6. The Unambitious Complainer – Complains but never takes action.

7. The Mindlessly Conforming – Ignorantly follows trends without critical thought.

8. The Mediocre but Arrogant – Lacks depth yet wrongly believes they are "better".

9. The One Who Fears Solitude – Can't function without constant social engagement.

10. The Wasteful Opportunist – Squanders resources and chances without putting sincere effort to share anything meaningful or valuable.

11. The One Who Pretends to Be Intellectual – Acts knowledgeable but lacks true understanding.

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11 Sentences Starting with "Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is..."

1. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is get validation from people who don't think critically.

2. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is show off material possessions without actual substance.

3. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is gain attention by being loud and irrational.

4. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is collect followers but lack meaningful influence.

5. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is conform to trends without thinking about consequences of actions.

6. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is receive rewards for mediocrity.

7. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is manipulate others into giving you opportunities.

8. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is depend on others to make decisions for you.

9. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is fake intelligence while avoiding the clear truth and obvious facts.

10. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is surround yourself with people just to avoid being alone.

11. Please, don't assume that an INTJ feels jealous if all you do is spy on others' lives nosily (stalking accounts of people who have nothing to do with you or wasting your time watching nonsensical vlogs etc.) while you fail to make your life actually meaningful.

    ⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT