بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Tips: 9 Comebacks To Immature Bullies Who Frequently Mistreat You And Others

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📑 9 comebacks which you can say to a bunch of insecure bullies who frequently disturb or mistreat you: 
1🔹 "Why do you keep following me? Are you in love with me? I don't like you at all! Plus, I'm straight. So buzz off, you pesky imbecile!" 
2🔹 "Is that how your uneducated parents raised you? To be obnoxious towards others? Your ugly personality and lack of good manners are nothing to be proud of. Quit being delusional!" 
3🔹 "Are you always like this to every single human being you meet? Or only to those who trigger negative feelings of envy? Aww, c'mon, you're jealous of me! Admit it. Otherwise, you wouldn't be stalking me like an infatuated idiot." 
4🔹 "What? I never asked for your irrelevant opinion. So back away, you nosy clown." 
5🔹 "Why are you talking to me? Go ask from somebody else for money or candy. I don't want to waste my time on bullies with ugly personalities." 
6🔹 "Let me guess. You're either pranking and pretending to be pathetic bullies because you're being paid to do this nonsense? Or you're flaunting your awful upbringing since you are foolishly proud of your abusive or negligent parents?" 
7🔹 "I've told you many times, and I shall say this again because of how ridiculously stupid you are, I don't like you at all. Stop being so desperate for my attention." 
8🔹 "Who summoned you? Did you come from the mental hospital to show off your craziness? Or do you act this way because you know that in many ways I make you jealous?"
9🔹 "Your nonsensical remarks and baseless comments mean absolutely nothing to me just as good character and moral values mean nothing to you. You're basically acting like an animal, now shoo! Scram, you animal-wannabe."
~•~
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing is heavier upon the scale of a believer on the Day of Resurrection than his good character. Verily, Allah hates the vulgar and obscene person (prone to wicked conduct and vile speech such as purposely telling lies, backbiting, spreading rumors)."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2002
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Note: True Muslims Must Not Celebrate Birthdays. What's There To Be Fascinated About Becoming Older?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم


Alhamdulillah. There's no such thing as celebrating birthdays in Islam. The best of all human beings namely the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam never celebrated the day on which he SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam was born, so why should we act like we're so infatuated or in love with ourselves by inviting additional expenses in setting up birthday parties each year to remind how old we're getting? How are you so fascinated by the fact you're becoming older day by day? "Happy bday to me, I'm going to be one of the elderly, yippee" doesn't seem appealing.

Glad tidings Inn-sha-Allah to those who don't celebrate their birthdays and who edited their date of birth on some or all social networking platforms so some website doesn't need to remind us of how old we're getting by the minute.


Sunday, April 28, 2024

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (20)

 



Poem: Expect Some Childish Bullying When Some Females Envy You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
✅ Some things to expect when lots of females envy you, 
As you're skilled at doing worthwhile tasks which they can't do, 
Because you're prettier than them while they're insecure, 
Or you're married and they're single, or you're a wife who 
Is fine with her spouse staying wed to four, three or two, 
~•~
Or your strong faith and trust in Allah causes them to 
Feel somewhat "inferior" so they strive to malign you, 
Unaware that Allah is the One Who granted you 
Those gifts as tests and to examine their Imaan too - 
They're not doing well if they remain jealous of you...
~•~
Here's what to expect when many females envy you: 
Jealous females treating you in a way that is rude, 
Inventing rumors about you, trying to exclude
You from their outings so their self-hatred gets reduced, 
They wish to see you sad so their hurt ego is soothed.
~•~
Expect envious females with low confidence to 
Frequently ignore your salaams, stubbornly refuse 
To show kindness to one whose good qualities seduce
Them to feeling as though they're more useless than proud mules, 
And make you feel "unseen", evincing ingratitude.
~•~
Expect loads of eye-rolling from souls who envy you, 
Spiteful giggles and ridicule from the insecure, 
Exclusion from gatherings often done by those who 
Find your inner beauty threatening so they're forced to 
Mistreat you since your self-esteem makes them insecure.
~•~
When treated with disrespect from those who envy you, 
Don't doubt your self-worth. Instead, have patience, gratitude
And contentment with the blessings which Allah gave you. 
Be contented we're not like them - disturbed, insecure
And ugly on the inside with manners immature.
~•~
They're unhappy really, emotionally abused 
By their own jealousy and sins in oppressing you. 
Await Allah's Justice. Know that Judgment Day is true. 
And believe, with certainty, acknowledge that for sure 
Most people won't envy one who's idle, plain and poor.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it erases good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a (true Muslim) servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani