Poem: I Do Not Regret My Marriage Life As It's A Gift And Trust From Allah The Most Wise

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Don't get me wrong. When I state this, I truly mean it - 

Alhamdulillah. I'm contented with my marriage, 

Satisfied with the man whom Allah has selected 

As my other half and soulmate. I don't regret it - 

Being closer to Allah is what keeps this love blessed. 

~•~

I'm contented with this marriage so much so that if 

All "marriage coaches" on earth gathered and instructed

"Leave him. There are plenty of guys out there. Don't obsess 

Over one who's too busy and by work distracted, 

Who's not around a lot and broke more than one promise.",

~•~

I'd respond with: Are you serious? You think I'm stupid 

Enough to ditch my husband for some mistakes he did 

As if I am "perfect" while he's the one defective, 

As if the next guy I marry won't be imperfect

But a sub who'll grant me all my wishes and requests? 

~•~

Are you that idiotic to guess that I said yes 

To my husband's marriage proposal to achieve bliss 

Through his wealth as if money is what brings happiness? 

I married him for Allah, and I don't regret this - 

Being closer to Allah is what keeps our love blessed. 

~•~

Even if most days of each year my husband is missed, 

Even if sympathizers can't describe him as rich, 

And even if others' "love journeys" make me "jealous", 

I won't quit on him. For Allah's sake I'm contented

With Allah's choice. This love begets blessings, not regret.

~•~

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim  

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan." 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/07/poem-seven-reasons-why-divorce-is-more.html 

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Poem: To Those Who Enjoy Gossiping About Me, I Can Tell You're Jealous

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

📝 To the bashers out there who stalk my posts frequently 

With bitterness, awareness they're guilty of envy

And eagerness to gossip and bully childishly, 

Who seem shaky when I'm nearby yet they cowardly 

Diss me in my absence so their ego is appeased: 

~•~

I can tell you're jealous. Don't deny it. It's so clear - 

Your envy is like elephants hiding nervously

Behind a leafless tree, or like a frightened monkey 

Trying to conceal itself beneath a tiny leaf. 

You're jealous, and you know it. Your rudeness makes it clear. 

~•~

Your envy is shown each time you roll your eyes at me 

When I speak or try to contribute generously

To most group conversations, and you'd appear to me 

As if you often grumble to yourself "why does she 

Feel the need to brag and prove she's better constantly?" 

~•~

It's so obvious, your exasperating jealousy, 

When you exclude me from planned gatherings purposely, 

When you break promises a lot, when you feel the need 

To point out my flaws and criticize my family, 

When you recruit more clowns to partake in your envy, 

~•~

And when I discover how you've been regularly

Talking badly about me to heal your jealousy. 

You're jealous because I'm okay with polygyny, 

My parents are educated while yours probably

Failed to teach you basic manners and integrity, 

~•~

You despise how my husband deserves my loyalty, 

How he's a doctor who owned many cars previously 

And tries his best to improve in faith and piety, 

And you envy how I don't keep him for his money

But I want him with me in Jannah eternally.

~•~

You're jealous. Even if you won't admit it, it's clear - 

Your envy - when you mention my name negatively

Or treat me rudely so your frail ego is relieved. 

Collect all my sins each time you backbite about me.

I forgive and distance myself from your misery. 

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever wrongs his brother in his honor or anything else should resolve the matter today before it cannot be resolved with gold and silver coins. If he has good deeds to his credit, they will be taken from him according to the measure of his injustice. If he has no good deeds left, he will bear the evil deeds of the one he has oppressed."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 2317

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it erases good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."

In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a (true Muslim) servant."

Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

https://www.salafisounds.com/ten-evil-consequences-of-envy-jealousy-by-abu-khadeejah-abdul-wahid/

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-clear-signs-of-jealous-people-even.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/poem-some-ways-to-detect-jealous-haters.html 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/09/poem-tired-of-jealous-people-treating.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/11/tips-to-befriend-or-to-avoid.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/poem-distance-yourself-from-jealous.html 

https://personalitygrowth.com/heres-how-you-handle-being-disliked-based-on-your-personality-type/

Note: Indicators Of Jealousy On Social Media And While Chatting

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

📝 Subtle and obvious signs that a person may be intensely jealous of you regardless of their age through chatting and social media: 

1] Although they claim to be educated and frequently capitalize the first letter of other individuals' names while chatting or commenting on posts, you notice an absurd pattern in them consistently misspelling your name (even though your correctly spelled name may be evident in your username) or typing it incorrectly all too often, as though they're desperate to show disrespect in any way to alleviate their unpleasant feelings of jealousy towards you and your blessings. 

2] While they regularly try to answer other Muslims' salaams online or on chat groups, they seem to be obnoxiously consistent in answering your messages or posts without responding to your salaams. Intentionally ignoring your greetings online and face to face may be their strange coping mechanism with debilitating feelings of extreme envy. 

3] If they're part of a chat group which you're a member of, they are consistently nonreactive or silent whenever you share some beneficial content or ask questions. However, as soon as you make a mistake or forward certain misinformation, they excitedly point out your errors, publicly scold or criticize you in the main body of the group chat instead of correcting or advising you one-on-one, and they do this a lot. Envious people would do whatever they can to upset you to enjoy a temporary feeling of "superiority".

4] On a regular basis they deliberately leave you out when tagging a number of users (on some of their status updates or while conversing in a chat group) who are your mutual acquaintances and you all were active participants in the same activity, despite being fully aware of your account and presence in the group conversation. 

5] You've never received a single compliment or congratulatory message from them whenever you shared joyful moments or uplifting news, in spite of them being "connected" with you on social media, and if ever you express gratitude to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala or display any form of joy for an achievement, you've heard them say something like "you're just lucky", "good for you. I'm so jealous of you now", "jeez, why are you such a show-off?", "stop being narcissistic" or "whatever".

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it erases good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Envy consumes good deeds just as fire burns wood. Charity (Sadaqah) extinguishes sinful deeds just as water extinguishes fire. Prayer is the light of the believer and fasting is his shield from the Hellfire."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4210

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Ibn Asakir

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719

Sahih Muslim 2563

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

https://www.salafisounds.com/ten-evil-consequences-of-envy-jealousy-by-abu-khadeejah-abdul-wahid/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/07/poem-what-undue-jealousy-does.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/03/tips-nine-likely-reasons-why-some.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/09/poem-tired-of-jealous-people-treating.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/11/tips-to-befriend-or-to-avoid.html 

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Links: EBook The Three Fundamental Principles Of Islam By Imaam Muhammad Ibn AbdulWahhab In Arabic And English Language (Sadaqah Jaariyah)

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Poem: Not Lonely. Just Inspired By Allah To Leave Those Who Failed To Prove They Are Trustworthy.

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📜 Trust me when I say this, I'm not the type that's clingy. 

I don't need the love of flawed humans to feel complete, 

Don't expect them to respect me while they frequently

Deal with foul envy and loads of insecurities, 

And I won't wait for them to greet me consistently.

~•~

Once I start believing that someone's untrustworthy, 

Unworthy of my trust, affection and energy, 

I gladly avoid them for Allah the Almighty,

As much as possible, to preserve my well-being. 

Their posts no longer appear on my Facebook news feed.

~•~

I unfollow them online, and offline don't go near 

Them as often as I can, not out of pride and fear 

But because I believe that Allah's Love is more dear 

To me than allowing toxic actors with severe 

Attachment to dunya to disrupt my goals and dreams.

~•~

Yes they distract me at times when they chat aimlessly, 

Discuss pointless matters, yap about "celebrities", 

Gossip about those whom they're jealous of intensely,

And decline invites when I ask them to learn with me 

More about Islam so our faith Imaan can increase.

~•~

The wrong pals are like leeches that watch you as you bleed. 

You're better off without their lies, lousy tendency

To deceive you and mislead, and without their appeals

To receive your loyalty for their clear fakery. 

Not "lonely". Blessed by Allah to leave tomfoolery.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Ibn Hibban reported: Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, "A righteous companion is better than solitude, and solitude is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawḍat Al-‘Uqalā’ 56 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/poem-not-lonely-since-allah-is-with-me.html 

https://abukhadeejah.com/only-true-friends-and-righteous-companions-will-benefit-you/

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poems-on-dealing-with-failed.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/tips-when-we-can-forgive-and-give.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-open-letter-to-ex-friends-and.html 

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/13843/%D9%85%D8%A7-%D8%AD%D9%83%D9%85-%D9%85%D8%AC%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B3%D8%A9-%D9%82%D8%B1%D9%86%D8%A7%D8%A1-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B3%D9%88%D8%A1

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