💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
💌 Five things every wife must avoid to respect her spouse,
Whom Allah chose as her soulmate with whom she's allowed
To be playful, romantic, flirty and joke around,
While they strive, as sweet partners, to Jannatul Ferdaus:
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One: Nagging, interrogating and scolding your man,
Specially when he arrives from work, tired or deadpan.
Yelling at him, shaming, or giving him tough demands
Can push him to do acts which sensitive wives won't want.
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Two: Making him feel as though you can never trust him,
Stalking him with fake accounts, inspecting his items
Too often, having doubts when he speaks to strange women
Can make him flee from a CCTV-like machine.
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Three: Not being grateful for simple gestures of love.
Telling him "Is that it?", "You cheapskate!", "That's not enough."
And "I want more!" when financial conditions are rough
Could lessen his attraction to you till he gives up.
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Four: Not supporting him with his work, not knowing when
To talk and to give space when he needs peaceful moments.
Knowingly acting like a nuisance or distraction
May tempt him to leave, or find a more loving woman.
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Five: Insulting or disdaining your man's family,
Disrespecting their rights and insisting pridefully
That you become your husband's topmost priority.
Insecure moves can force him to quit or remarry.
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Be a source of joy, means of peace or encouragement
To the man whom Allah wisely sent as your husband.
Trust in Allah, being grateful, forgiving, patient,
And clever can spice up your marriage with more blessings.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi
Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātih 5/2125
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
