Poem: Tips To Cope With LDR And How To Keep Loving Your Husband For Allah's Sake While He Works In Another Country/City

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Five tips to cope as a faithful wife despite distance, 

To thrive as your husband's loyal soulmate with patience, 

To keep your love alive though you don't always see him, 

Whether his frequent absence is due to employment, 

Or with more than one wife he has lawful relations:

~•~ 

One: Trust Allah. Believe you'll triumph through LDR, 

Your love can stay strong no matter how far you're apart 

Physically, but deeply you're within each other's hearts.

Grow stronger in love when you pray for one another, 

And remain in touch for Allah through loving Du'as.

~•~

Two: The distress in missing your husband's sweet presence 

Isn't as distressing as not being wed to him. 

It's a blessing that this love was by Allah written 

And since you married with the sincerest intention, 

Your romance, with Allah's Will, can be everlasting.

~•~

Three: This marriage is blessed, as it helps you get tougher 

In faith/Imaan through maintaining Sabr and Shukr. 

Aware that the tests in dunya aren't forever 

And other wives worldwide are also in LDR, 

You strive for Allah, as your man's lover, not quitter.

~•~

Four: The miles between you and your husband don't lessen 

Your compassion for him, but rather it just strengthens 

Your loyalty for Allah with heartfelt commitment. 

Missing him inspires you to increase supplications, 

And in connecting with Allah you find contentment.

~•~

Five: When certain couples flaunt their love for each other, 

You're moved to make your love for your spouse even deeper, 

Unwilling to quit on him, like a fierce go-getter, 

Eager for Allah's Love each time you practice Sabr, 

Praying you and your zawj enter Jannah together.

~•~

Though anytime you can request for separation 

Specially when silent moments become worrisome, 

It's amazing how you choose to keep on loving him, 

Knowing that challenges on earth aren't permanent, 

And your love can't change, as it's real since the beginning.

~•~

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The best wealth is a tongue that remembers Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing wife to help one in his faith."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3094

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Unfollow Toxic Users Without Remorse

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Toxic users are like cigars. The more you absorb 

Their negative vibes, willful lies and gossipy words, 

The weaker your resolve or the more you doubt yourself. 

They're toxic if their acts make you question your self-worth 

And spending time around them mostly makes you feel worse.

~•~

Their Facebook timeline contains passive-aggressive posts, 

Complaints about people whom they envy and don't know, 

Links to talks by speakers whose values are still unknown, 

And offline they act as though they're shy and humble souls 

Yet when amongst their likes, they backbite about their foes.

~•~

They're toxic because your level of faith Imaan goes 

Low and declines whenever their true colors are shown - 

Jealous of your goals, too selfish to offer support, 

Doubtful of your motives, suspicious of what you hold, 

Unable to advise, and not empathic at all.

~•~

When you speak or contribute, their eyes they often roll, 

Tired of hearing you talk yet loathe it when they're unheard. 

Since they're pros at gossip, to them secrets can't be told. 

Take their wretched traits as examples to not follow, 

While praying to Allah they someday forgo their wrongs.

~•~

Unfollow what they post and do online to uphold 

Your dedication to serve Allah with good morals.

Firm decision to lessen contact doesn't connote 

That you're prideful, but you're merely protecting your soul 

From obstacles which distract or lead to one's downfall.

~•~

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and disobedience.”

Source: ‘Awn Al-Ma’būd 4681

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-types-of-toxic-friends-we-must.html

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-red-flags-of-toxic-friends-and.html

Poem: Your Choice To Either Keep Loving Someone For Allah's Sake Or To Leave Them If Their Presence Isn't A Blessing

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Just as your coffee gets cold when you leave it untouched 

And flowers wither when they're not well taken care of, 

Love between spouses and friends can decrease in impact 

Gradually if both sides take each other for granted, 

Until one decides to give up when they've had enough.

~•~

When you purposely ignore your partner or a friend, 

Trying to grab their attention through silent treatment, 

Indirectly you train them to be independent 

And content without your presence till their concern ends.

Blame your pride if one day they agree on detachment.

~•~

Nonetheless, Allah gifted some souls with inner strength, 

Outstanding patience, understanding and tolerance 

With their loved ones, and their affection can't be questioned. 

Despite the beloved persons' faults and shortcomings, 

They still love them for Allah with stubborn persistence.

~•~

If your coffee got cold, you can enjoy it with ice, 

Or cook mocha flavored pancakes when you feel inspired.

Dead roses and dried plants can be nicely utilized 

As ornaments on journals creatively designed, 

Around mirror frames and vases indoors or outside.

~•~

So you see, you've got the freedom and ability 

To keep loving some for Allah with fierce loyalty, 

Or terminate connections that bring more misery. 

Whether you choose to stay in touch or ditch somebody, 

Ensure your choice leads to Allah and your heart's at peace.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Love whom you love moderately, perhaps he will become hateful to you someday. Hate whom you hate moderately, perhaps he will become your beloved friend someday."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1997

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "You will not enter Paradise until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love each other. Shall I show you something that, if you did, you would love each other? Spread peace (salaam) between yourselves."

Source: Sahih Muslim 54, Grade: Sahih

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Tips To Patiently Deal With Three Types Of Insecure People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Smart ways to deal with three types of insecure people - 

Ghosters who ignore your messages as they're fearful 

Of connecting or they're deficient in good morals, 

Strangers who treat you in a way that's disrespectful, 

And haters who assemble newbies to their circle:

~•~

With those who cowardly leave your messages on seen, 

Who purposely dismiss your questions and disappear: 

Deem them untrustworthy and dead. Don't poke the deceased. 

Unfollow them fully. Don't chase like Tom with Jerry.

Accept that's the end of their role in your life story.

~•~

More than thousands on earth can replace them, don't worry. 

They're not worth your worries, self-doubt and anxiety, 

Specially if they lack good character immensely 

Or they're guilty of understandable jealousy.

Thank Allah for shielding you from their toxicity.

~•~

With the ignoble whose actions are deplorable, 

Who return your salaams with silence, your smiles with scowls, 

And who try to upset you whenever you're around, 

Pity them. Their self-hatred is proven and profound. 

Their hurt ego is why their ugly conduct comes out.

~•~

When mistreated by the sadly rude and impolite, 

Remain firm for Allah's sake and patiently stay kind. 

Don't let their disturbed selves diminish your inner light. 

Rather sympathize. Realize their sad life is why 

They can't carry themselves in a way that's civilized.

~•~

Their lousy behavior isn't an open invite 

To duplicate their foul upbringing and hateful style. 

Mean trolls and troublemakers we meet once in a while 

Remind us to thank Allah we're not troubled inside. 

Their rudeness inspires us to despise being unkind.

~•~

With critics who overact due to their injured pride 

Or spiteful rivals who search for fans to take their side, 

Feel sorry for them too. Their efforts they utilize 

Wrongly in misdeeds that displease Allah the Most Wise.

Through their wrongs they earn your sins. They're blessings in disguise.

~•~

While you can't control how people view and describe you, 

And you can't always stop them from being immature,

How long you pay attention to their lies you can choose, 

And to drop to their level you've the choice to refuse.

Prove you're better in manners, and they're the ones who lose.

~•~

Allah's Prophets ('alaihim as-salaam) also had haters without a doubt, 

From the disbelievers, hypocrites and grossly proud. 

So when Allah tests your faith with an ill-mannered crowd, 

Level up your patience, forgo reactions unsound, 

And keep a sound heart that deserves Jannatul Ferdaus.

~•~

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone, do so." Then, the Prophet SallAllahu' alaihi wa sallam said to me, "Young man, that is my Sunnah. Whoever revives my Sunnah has loved me, and whoever loves me will be with me in Paradise."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2678

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, who are the best people?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One with a heart swept clean and truthful in speech." We said, “O Messenger of Allah, we know truthful in speech. What is a heart swept clean?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One that is mindful of Allah and pure, in which there is no sin, nor aggression, nor envy." We said, “Who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "One who hates worldliness and loves the Hereafter." They said, “And who shows a sign of it?” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believer with good character."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 4457

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Poem: True Friends Who Love You For Allah's Sake Give Some Space From Time To Time

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Dear friend, please don't be offended when I go quiet.

Don't doubt our friendship if I can't answer each message.

Silence doesn't mean I'm depressed, please be reminded,

To leave some words unsaid is one way to be shielded.

~•~

Concealing private info is among my methods

To protect myself from actors who love to gossip.

This doesn't mean you're someone who cannot be trusted.

From the sin of backbiting I want you protected.

~•~

Supposing I opened up and told you my secrets,

From my past mistakes to thoughts that could be dangerous,

And dreams if I narrate them would you become jealous,

Or will you grant me comfort to prove you're supportive?

~•~

Folks who betrayed me are too many to be counted.

No longer is it shocking to get disappointed,

Where most are experts at breaking a bond or promise.

So when I take breaks from drama, please get used to it.

~•~

Silent moments are sweet chances to be near Allah,

Through Qur'an reading, saying Dhikr and more Salahs.

While we don't chat always, you're in my heart and Du'as,

Constantly praying for eternal rest in Jannah.

~•~

📖 Mu'adh Ibn Jabal RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Allah the Exalted said: 'Those who love each other for the sake of My Glory will be upon pulpits of light and they will be envied by the prophets and the martyrs.'"

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2390

Grade: Sahih

📖 Ibn Hibban RahimahuAllah narrated that Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said, “A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one who is silent, and one who is silent is better than an evil writer.”

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalaa 56