Poem: Describing My Husband's Personality Who's An ESFJ

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Briefly describing my man's personality type, 

To portray what most ESFJ husbands are like, 

So if in your fam there are some ESFJ guys, 

You can appreciate the good they offer sometimes, 

And with their quirks, likes and dislikes, you can sympathize:

~•~

Overall my husband is hardworking, organized, 

Respectful to his colleagues, to children very kind, 

Sympathetic to his patients, with strangers polite, 

Chatty when he feels like talking, playful oftentimes, 

Observant, ambitious, can take the lead when he likes.

~•~

Many times with his cars he's given others free rides. 

From his travels whenever my husband would arrive, 

He'd bring some gifts and souvenirs, or at least he'd try, 

And if he couldn't buy something, he'd apologize 

And make amends for shortcomings at a later time.

~•~

As an extrovert, my husband loves to socialize, 

Attend gatherings if he isn't busy or tired, 

Joke around with loved ones to share some laughter and smiles, 

Chat with the elderly so life lessons are acquired, 

And as a parent he's lenient, forbearing and mild.

~•~

Recalling a lot from the past since he was a child, 

He's the type to cherish sweet moments and who'd remind 

You about significant dates and tasks when required. 

ESFJs are sensitive, so don't be surprised 

If they shed tears or overreact once in a while.

~•~

To get along fine with ESFJs in your life: 

Listen to them when they speak, yet lovingly advise 

Them to switch topics when they've got the urge to backbite. 

Strive to fulfill promises, as they really hate lies. 

Friendly gestures they show you - value and recognize.

~•~

When they attempt to tell jokes, pretend to laugh or smile, 

So long as their statements don't offend a Muslim's rights.

From the signs an ESFJ cares: Giving advice, 

Sharing food with you, buying items they hope you'd like, 

And patiently tolerating your flaws or weird side.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi

💚 Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'a.

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Poem: So You Divorced? You Can Remarry Twice If You Still Have Feelings For The Guy

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 To that woman who seems to take pride in giving up 

Loving the spouse whom Allah chose for her from above, 

Ungrateful, impatient, so love was easily dropped, 

Like a child that discards an unfinished lollipop, 

And she regards herself as "ideal"... Breaker of knots?

~•~

So you're an "ideal Muslimah" if you just give up? 

If you demand divorce when the journey gets too tough? 

If you stop loving your spouse because he loves his job? 

Coz he's not rich enough? Or the in-laws are too much? 

Coz he's not perfect? Not your clone? What, to be exact?

~•~

If you sought joy through marriage, you already messed up. 

Marriage doesn't assure that in life there won't be probs. 

In fact, when you marry, expect trials and mishaps. 

Marriage is a gift with many tests you aim to pass, 

Like swords need consistent care to ensure they don't rust.

~•~

FYI, once you're divorced, did you know this or not, 

In Islam you can remarry twice, resume the pact, 

Forgive each other for Allah's sake and start from scratch? 

This shows the virtues of loyalty, not giving up, 

Patience and contentment with the blessings that one has.

~•~

Not condoning abuse. Just warning against "fake love" 

And informing you that love can't last if these you lack: 

Sincere niyyah to marry and help your other half, 

Sabr and empathy, specially when times are rough, 

And awareness your husband ain't a bank nor robot.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: On Giving More Importance To Learning Arabic Than Other Languages

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Isn't it strange how some people have the willingness, 

Enthusiasm, perseverance, and eagerness 

To learn a foreign language like Japanese, Turkish, 

French or Korean, yet when it comes to Arabic, 

They claim they're "too busy" or it's too "complicated". 

~•~

Some watch French films or Korean drama with keenness, 

And when they get invited to study Arabic, 

They'd react with a "not now" or "I'll think about it". 

Of access to Arabic classes take advantage, 

Self-study and research, or learn from speakers native.

~•~

Studying foreign languages may be meaningless 

If learning doesn't come with merit and good purpose, 

And one's aim is to increase pride or social status, 

Not to do Da'wah, communicate with relatives, 

Or translate helpful books into a certain language.

~•~

From the reasons that encourage learning Arabic: 

To understand Allah's Message, the Qur'an's verses, 

To follow how Prophet Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) supplicated, 

To benefit from writings with authentic knowledge, 

And know the meanings behind Adhkaar frequently said.

~•~

Learn other languages if you like, but don't neglect 

Efforts to be near Allah through learning Arabic. 

Watch useful videos, listen to lectures recorded, 

Learn new words and implement the lessons you've studied, 

With sincere motives to earn blessings throughout your quest.

~•~

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There are two blessings which many people waste: Health and free time."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6049

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever travels a path in search of (beneficial and authentic) knowledge, Allah will make easy for him a path to Paradise."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2699

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Take advantage of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your illness, your riches before your poverty, your free time before your work, and your life before your death."

Source: Shu’ab Al-Imān 9575

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 'Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the deeds are with the intentions (rewarded according to the doer's actual niyyah/intention). Verily, every person will have only what they intended. Whoever emigrated to Allah and His Messenger, his emigration is for Allah and His Messenger (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam). Whoever emigrated to get something in the world or to marry a woman, his emigration is for that to which he emigrated."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 54 

Sahih Muslim 1907

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

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Tips: Never Compare Your Lifestyle And Current Situation To People's Controlled Online Content

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Never compare your life story to someone's controlled online posts, photos carefully edited to impress others and number of likes they receive on their Facebook timeline. An album of a friend's recent trip to an exotic country abroad shouldn't make you feel like you're lacking something. A stranger's video uploaded on YouTube showcasing their grand, extravagant and fabulous wedding held at a luxury hotel mustn't cause you to forget the memorable occasion when you and your husband got married by Allah's Will in the Islamic way that pleases Him. A woman's beautiful facial features and perfectly slim figure do not cancel out the fact that you also look good, since Allah the Almighty created you beautifully to appear unique and distinguished from the rest of His creation. A user receiving more likes on most of their status updates or they have more subscribers on their YouTube channel than you doesn't mean you lack significant value. What people choose to do and display on the internet should never threaten your self-esteem nor decrease your contentment, level of faith/Imaan and gratitude. Stay grateful to Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala for the gifts which He wisely selected for you. Even the most happiest or wealthiest group of individuals on earth have their own set of dilemma, struggles and worries. Nobody in this temporal dunya has everything going on smoothly 24/7. While a Facebook user or YouTuber may seem like they're living a perfect life, offline they could be struggling with different problems and a mountain load of stress, trying their best to survive and maintain forced smiles at times.

Being Muslim Alhamdulillah should suffice you to recall that perfection, eternal bliss and actual happiness can only be achieved in Jannah Paradise. 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam said, "He has succeeded who embraces Islam, whose provision is sufficient, and who is content with what Allah has given him."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1054

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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Poem: Three Qualities Common Among Those With A Weak Personality

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 Three things that signal one's personality is weak, 

Even if they appear tough, seem happy spuriously, 

Keep many friends, or claim they don't get hurt easily,

Three qualities that cause a person to act like sheep, 

Unable to lead as if they're designed for defeat: 

~•~

One - They bully, conceal weaknesses by acting mean, 

And with lack of self-control they're ready to demean, 

To bash this unjustly, and ridicule that one's dream. 

Pros at gossiping and whining about what they've seen, 

Their foul speech may reveal hearts that are for now unclean. 

~•~

Two - They fear people more than Allah the Almighty, 

Can't make firm decisions without consulting firstly 

Those whom they admire to provoke those whom they envy. 

They stop wearing hijaab if it inspires mockery, 

And they're scared to pray on time, unless there's company.

~•~

Three - They try to complete tasks almost begrudgingly. 

Outwardly they'd agree to something when inwardly 

They hate you, or feel like they've been treated unfairly. 

Weak people lack willingness to help, sincerity, 

And strength to decline requests which clash with their beliefs.

~•~

So you're not with those whose personality is weak: 

Do your best to please Only Allah the Almighty. 

Defend the oppressed. Treat all with justice and mercy.

Be the kind of servant whom Allah wants us to be.

Don't be afraid to share the truth when necessary.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong are not the best at wrestling. Verily, the strong are only those who control themselves when they are angry."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5763 

Sahih Muslim 2609

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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