Poem: What You Can Do When You Discover That There Is No Person Whom You Can Trust

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 "What advice can you give to people who realized 

There's nobody whom they can trust in this current life?" 

Remind yourself firstly we have Allah the Most Wise. 

So long as just pleasing Allah is from our desires, 

We won't feel bothered if by Allah's slaves we're despised. 

~•~ 

If you find gossipers to your left, and to your right 

Are actors who pretend to like you while deep inside 

Lingers jealousy that's darker than black ants at night, 

And behind you are trolls that seek to spoil your spotlight, 

Trust Only Allah, and move forward to Paradise. 

~•~ 

Since most people are prone to envy, don't be surprised 

If those whom you surround oppose you most of the time, 

Despite your willingness to improve, share, and be kind, 

As jealous hearts can't stand strong faith/Imaan, cheerful vibes, 

And your passion to serve Allah keeps them terrified. 

~•~

It's fine if part of your temporary tests in life 

Is feeling like a lone outsider most of the time. 

Don't cling to people. Connect with Allah the Most Wise. 

Keep calm with Adhkaar, Qur'an, and prayers day and night, 

With true knowledge and good deeds which brighten your soul's light.

~•~

📖 Ibn 'Abbas RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: I was riding behind the Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he said to me, "Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah and He will protect you. Be mindful of Allah and you will find Him before you. If you ask, ask from Allah. If you seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nations were to gather together to benefit you, they will not benefit you unless Allah has decreed it for you. And if the nations gathered together to harm you, they will not harm you unless Allah has decreed it for you. The pens have been lifted and the pages have dried."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2516

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to At-Tirmidhi 

📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Three things follow a deceased person (to the person's grave). Two of them return and one remains. His family, his wealth, and his deeds follow him. His family and wealth return, but his deeds remain (with the dead in their graves)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6149 

Sahih Muslim 2960

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56 

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Note: Three Probable Reasons Why Some Wives Like To Discuss Their Marriage Lives Online

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 If you're currently single, you've probably found yourself rolling your eyes, while scrolling through your Facebook news feed, whenever certain users would openly gush over their spouses and announce how blessed they are to be married for the nth time. At least once you may have debated with yourself, wondering if you should or shouldn't unfriend a particular user because you've gotten tired of their annoyingly repetitive posts about their love life. Constant exposure to cringeworthy content could frighteningly worsen your moods. 

Before confirming that you're allergic to people who brag about their marriages, make effort to figure out the probable sources of their eccentric behavior or seemingly insecure acts. 

Your relative, friend, or acquaintance who seems to enjoy boasting about her married status may not have any intention to make you feel jealous or insecure, but that's probably one of her coping mechanisms when dealing with certain challenges, including: 

1] Resisting unwanted or inappropriate feelings of attraction, so for Allah's sake she remains loyal to her husband: It could be that since she has an unexplainable crush on you or on somebody else, by emphasizing her love for her destined other half or soulmate, she believes she can effectively ignore the attractiveness of people whose relatable qualities act as distractions. 

2] Dismissing, avoiding, or brushing off desperate love-seekers many of whom don't get the hint that she's contentedly married: By publicly declaring that she's grateful to be her husband's wife on a regular basis, she aims to terminate the interest of bored users who fill up her inbox with unnecessary greetings and flirtatious messages. 

3] Trying to survive and thrive in a competitive atmosphere as a co-wife: Occasionally stating how happy she is with her husband could be an indirect message to his other wife/wives that they're all in this together and she has no plans whatsoever to leave him. 

Truly confident individuals who don't have issues with inferiority complex are able to listen to a Muslim's inspirational stories and joyful announcements without going, "not again. Brace yourself for another episode of cringey romance." or "nobody cares.". With empathy, they'd try to imagine being in that person's place and conclude they probably would've behaved almost similarly if they were in the same position.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the most false of tales. Do not seek out faults, do not spy on each other, do not contend with each other, do not envy each other, do not hate each other, and do not turn away from each other. Rather, be servants of Allah as brothers."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5719

Sahih Muslim 2563

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Al-Bayhaqi reported: Hamdun Al-Qassar, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If one of your brothers commits an error, seek seventy excuses for him. If your hearts do not accept it, know that the fault is with yourselves.”

Source: Shu'ab Al-Imān 10436 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/08/note-importance-of-avoiding-suspicion.html 

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Note: Understand That Not Everyone On Earth Will Like You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 It is a misconception to assume that achieving fame or being approved by the masses indicates Allah's Love for someone. Just because some individuals, activities, pages, YouTube videos, or ideas are popular doesn't necessarily imply you must join the crowd and root for them. 

A person of decent upbringing and sound thinking wouldn't chill around a junkyard full of garbage bags which attract tons of flies, maggots, and mosquitoes. So if you wonder why several Instagrammers and TikTokers quickly gain more fans than some informative Islamic channels, you'd realize that souls which are so similar in terms of their values, goals, and personality gravitate to each other more easily than to those who are too different from them. 

The best of all human beings, namely the beloved Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, was despised, unappreciated, and underestimated by his opponents from among the disbelievers, hypocrites, and apostates. 

It is impossible to be completely loved by each living thing on earth. For you to be lavished by everybody's approval and sympathy, you'd have to subserviently act in such a way that you meet every individual's demands, standards, and expectations, which means sacrificing a significant portion of who you truly are as a Muslim. Doing that, desperately trying to satisfy all of Allah's servants instead of concentrating on pleasing our Creator Allah the Almighty, would be inauthentic and disastrous to one's well-being. 

🌻 Three reasons why inevitably there will be a number of people on earth who may regard you as "toxic", "intolerable", "unlikable", "unworthy", and "annoying", despite being one of those believers whom Allah the Most Wise loves and promised Jannah Paradise: 

1] Envy: If there's something about you which makes them feel inferior, insecure, incompetent, jealous, or uncomfortably threatened in any way, they'd do whatever they can to stay away from you. 

2] Mismatch or clash of vibes: If their self-esteem, beliefs, and soul's energy conflict with yours constantly, tiring attempts to connect with them and understand their quirks could only lead to disharmony. 

3] Their assumption that your presence is not essential or useful yet in their lives: If you went shopping for eggs, bread, and toothbrushes, you'd prioritize purchasing those items and ignore the other products not because they lack value and functionality but you came there for your own necessities. You also purposely ignored the other merchandise as you couldn't afford them. 

Even if you're "too much" for some people or "not good enough", what's actually important is that we're special to Allah the Most Loving, just as He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala loves Prophet Nuh 'alaihis salaam and supported him in constructing the gigantic ark despite Nuh's tiny following.

~•~ 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah loves a servant, He calls Angel Jibreel (Gabriel 'alaihis salaam) and He (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says: 'Verily, I love this person so you should love him.' Then Angel Jibreel loves him and makes an announcement in the heavens, saying: 'Allah loves this person and you should love him.' Thus, the dwellers of the heavens love him and he is honored on the earth.”

In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When Allah is angry with a servant, He calls Angel Jibreel and He says: 'I hate this person, so you should hate him.' Then Angel Jibreel resents him and makes an announcement in the heavens, saying: 'Verily, Allah hates this person, so you should hate him.' Thus, they become resentful with him and he is hated on the earth (for that person's crimes, wicked actions, and evil qualities)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3037 

Sahih Muslim 2637

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Mu’awiyah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "If Allah intends goodness for someone, He gives him understanding of the religion."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 71

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If Allah intends goodness for someone, He afflicts him with trials."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5321

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari 

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Note: Some Ways That INTJs Differ From ENTJs, INFJs, INTPs And ISTJs

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Comparing the INTJ personality type with ENTJ, INFJ, INTP, and ISTJ: 

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs ENTJ (TeNi) 

🔹 INTJs are more independent, solitary, and reclusive. A lot of them can be socially awkward and very selective when it comes to choosing friends. ENTJs are more charismatic, talkative, and domineering. They can be charming as hosts, managers, and leaders.

🔹 INTJs would rather lead behind the scenes and command a group only if nobody else is leading. ENTJs are eager to act as the boss whenever they find opportunity to be in a leadership position.

🔹 An INTJ would be more comfortable maintaining a blog or website than regularly uploading vlogs on YouTube. An ENTJ would appreciate public speaking more than sitting passively among an audience.

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs INFJ (NiFe) 

🔹 INTJs are generally unaffected by insults, misconduct, and negative feedback which most people may find offensive. INFJs are more sensitive and prone to feeling hurt when criticized.

🔹 INTJs mostly think about their goals, values, and what is important to them when making decisions. INFJs are more concerned about their loved ones and others' well-being than their selves.

🔹 An INTJ is likely to say "ignore your feelings.", "don't let emotions distract you. Crying won't solve this problem.", and "just do it. I don't care if some people get upset.". An INFJ would encourage you to "feel every emotion you're feeling thoroughly" and tell you "it's okay to cry. You'll heal from it eventually.".

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs INTP (TiNe) 

🔹 INTJs in general complete most tasks and get things done more than some INTPs. INTPs are okay with leaving an activity, assignment, and project unfinished, if they discover something else that's more interesting.

🔹 INTJs would rather do their job in a quiet environment peacefully than in a loud workplace with frequent interruptions. INTPs can still concentrate on their own work amidst all the noise and chaos.

🔹 To strangers, most INTJs appear serious, intense, or somewhat unapproachable, while INTPs are more laid-back, goofy, and not fussy about sticking to certain rules.

🔲 INTJ (NiTe) vs ISTJ (SiTe)

🔹 INTJs are more future-oriented, imaginative, and visionary than ISTJs who typically have better memories of the past, observation skills, and attention to details.

🔹 Since INTJs are good at efficiency, they're willing to skip steps, cancel ineffective plans, and ignore warnings if doing so leads to a goal or solves a problem much faster. Stereotypical ISTJs would ensure that they took every step and no process was left out when trying to achieve an aim.

🔹 An INTJ is likely to say "let's try a new way to do that.", "I'm not surprised that he's absent again. I knew we can't rely on him.", and "I've moved on. There's no turning back. Those who aren't part of our family tree are dispensable.". ISTJs on the other hand may find these statements relatable: "it is what it is. I'm not going to change our tradition.", "stick to the old ways, because that is how it has always been done.", and "rules are rules. There's no way to find yourself around them, when I'm assigned to make sure they're all followed.".

~•~ 

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguments even if he is right, and a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lies even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who makes his character excellent."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4800

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi

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Hadith: The Importance Of Responding To The Muaddhin When He Calls The Adhan

📖 Umar Ibn Al-Khattab RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "When the caller to prayer says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest,’ then let one of you say, ‘Allah is the Greatest (Allahu Akbar), Allah is the Greatest.’ Then he says, ‘I testify there is no God but Allah,’ one says, ‘I testify there is no God but Allah.’ Then he says, ‘I testify that Muhammad (SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) is the Messenger of Allah,’ one says, ‘I testify that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.’ Then he says, ‘Come to the prayer,’ one says, 'There is no power or might but in Allah. (Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa Billah)' Then he says, ‘Come to the salvation (to success),’ one says, 'There is no power or might but in Allah. (Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa Billah)' Then he says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest,’ one says, ‘Allah is the Greatest, Allah is the Greatest.’ Then he says, ‘There is no God but Allah,’ one says, ‘There is no God but Allah,’ from his heart and he will enter Paradise."

Source: Sahih Muslim 385

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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