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Tips: Negative Qualities Which Many Untrustworthy People Have In Common

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🗒️ Seven negative qualities which many untrustworthy people have in common: 

1] They deliberately neglect the obligatory prayers or they don't pray at all. If someone has the audacity to disobey Allah's Commands by choice, what makes you so sure that they'll always keep their word? 

2] When they borrow some money or items from you, it takes a lot of time for them to return what they agreed to give back or the item they borrowed is returned but not in its proper condition. Trustworthy Muslims try their best to clear all their debts as soon as they can, knowing that death can occur at any moment. 

3] They have an awful tendency to gossip about others without guilt. You can't trust anybody who allows their tongue and emotions to take control of them. 

4] They've told an obvious lie or disappointed you more than three times, and they didn't bother compensating or doing anything to make up for their misconduct. 

5] When they notice you in a good mood or you're doing a certain task well, they act aloof and quiet. As soon as they catch you making a mistake, they eagerly point out your flaws and go out of their way to criticize you in public. Somebody who is eager to embarrass you online and offline is a jealous person who can never be trusted. 

6] They enjoy getting into pointless debates and interfering in matters that have nothing to do with them. The more talkative and reckless a person is regarding issues which don't concern them, the more the opportunities for committing mistakes. You can't rely on an individual who doesn't make effort to be cautious and disciplined. 

7] They're bad at communicating. You've observed that they usually leave most of your messages on "seen" mode as if they're guilty of hiding some information from you or they don't know the right way to respond. Anyone who acts as if they're concealing something essential from you can't truly be trusted.

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📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "You must be truthful. Verily, truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man continues to be truthful and encourages honesty until he is recorded with Allah as a truthful person. And beware of falsehood. Verily, falsehood leads to wickedness and wickedness leads to the Hellfire. A man continues to tell lies and encourages falsehood until he is recorded with Allah as a liar."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5743 

Sahih Muslim 2607

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There are four signs that make someone a pure hypocrite and whoever has them has a characteristic of hypocrisy (nifaaq) until he abandons it: When he speaks, he lies; when he makes a covenant, he is treacherous; when he makes a promise, he breaks it; and when he argues, he is wicked (acts unjustly)."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 34, Sahih Muslim 58

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Abu Hurairah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Years of treachery (before the Day of Judgment) will come over the people in which liars are believed and the truthful ones are denied, the deceitful are trusted, and the trustworthy are considered traitors, and the disgraceful will deliver speeches." It was said, “Who are the disgraceful?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Ignorant men with authority over the common people."

Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 4036

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

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Tips: Five Kinds Of People Whose "Advice" About Love And Marriage Life Don't Need To Be Taken

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 Five kinds of people whose so-called advice regarding love and marriage life don't deserve to be taken: 

1] People who are obviously jealous of you and who'd hate to see you succeed or surpass them in any way.

2] Individuals who have never been married and haven't actually experienced what real love for Allah's sake feels like. 

3] Divorcees who try to advise you according to their own standards or ego, without considering what is truly best for you in both worlds. 

4] Obvious narcissists who believe in the importance of insecurely playing hard to get and who are incapable of understanding the virtues of loyalty, gratitude, contentment, patience, steadfastness, empathy and forgiveness. 

5] Those who lack Taqwa, who don't believe in Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, and who seem overly attached to this fleeting dunya. Someone who doesn't put effort into striving to be pious for Allah's sake may give you wrong "tips" which could prevent you from succeeding in this world and the afterlife.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a loser."

Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090

In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28

USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27 

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations (mischief, trouble). One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'" 

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813 

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

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Poem: Dear Husband, Although I'm Not Perfect I Strive To Love You Perfectly For Allah's Sake

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Dear husband, the man whom Allah chose as my soulmate, 

Despite the fact I'm not perfect in numerous ways 

And I can't always stop myself from making mistakes, 

I'm perfectly grateful to be your wife, and I say 

This without lying that I love you for Allah's sake. 

~•~ 

Yes, beloved husband, I love you for Allah's sake 

Even though we're not passionate every night and day, 

I assure you I'm passionately loyal always, 

Talkative with very few, disciplined with my gaze, 

And defending you like lawyers fight to win a case. 

~•~ 

While I'm not fab with makeup nor have a flawless face, 

And though I'm not trained at maintaining an ideal weight, 

I try to look at least decent and for Allah's sake 

Your kindness more than your body I appreciate. 

To me, you're always handsome regardless of your age. 

~•~ 

Forgive me if I can't ensure I smell nice always, 

If to musk and lavenders my scent doesn't equate 

While I fail to do certain tasks with absolute grace. 

Nonetheless in spite of my flaws I sincerely pray 

That Allah blesses my loving you for Allah's sake. 

~•~ 

Dear husband, though I'm not perfect in so many ways, 

"I'm fine if you have four wives" I can faithfully state, 

Not coz I lack self-respect but I'd rather remain 

Married to the man whom Allah gave as my soulmate. 

Loving you for Allah is what makes you worth the wait.

~•~ 

📖 Abdullah Ibn 'Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1467

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A believing man does not despise a believing woman. If he finds something in her character which he dislikes, he will still be pleased by something else."

Source: Sahih Muslim 1469

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-love-your-husband-for-allah-and.html 

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Note: Some Factors Which Could Prevent Us From Connecting More Deeply With Some People

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📑 A few factors which could prevent you from wanting to form a friendship with some people: 

1] Jealousy: 

•° If they feel jealous of you for some reason, they may refuse to connect.

•° If some of their joys, capabilities or attributes cause you to be slightly envious, avoiding them may be more manageable than struggling with envy whenever they're around.

•° If you're both envious of each other, building a friendship can be a struggle.

2] Insecurities or lack of trust: 

•° If they are incapable of feeling safe and comfortable around you, if their presence makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure due to dissimilar goals and values which lead to conflict, or if you equally regard each other as unreliable, then it doesn't make sense to become allies. 

3] Expecting too much from them and refusing to forgive their past mistakes: 

•° If they perceive that you haven't done enough to be counted as an ideal friend, if you find them uninspiring or you still haven't forgiven them wholeheartedly, or if you mutually sense the "friendship" is one-sided, then both sides would eventually stop trying to become actual friends. 

Usually those with decent upbringing would refrain from associating with anybody who appears like a threat and who could influence them to do things they don't really wish to do. So when you wonder why certain friendships fail to last longer than you anticipated them to, realize that maybe jealous feelings got in the way of connecting, you were obviously incompatible, or simply Allah the Most Wise didn't allow you to remain in a connection which is harmful for your faith/Imaan and emotional well-being.

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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith (Imaan) and envy do not combine within a believing servant."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith are never combined in the heart of a servant."

Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim  

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