Note: Better To Be The Kind Person Giving Than The One Constantly Taking And Begging

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Giving charity for Allah's sake doesn't reduce your wealth, but it purifies it and blesses your earnings. Being generous is also one of the means to attain extra rewards. The more good deeds you sincerely do, the higher your level is in Jannah that has several levels the highest of which is Jannatul Ferdaus.

Some of the happiest people on earth aren't necessarily those who constantly receive gifts and freebies, but they're the ones who actively volunteer in charitable organizations, financially support widows and orphans, ensure the basic needs of the homeless or refugees are met, contribute to Islamic schools or madrasahs (madaaris) with whatever amount of money they can give, and provide the depressed or less fortunate with the available amenities they can offer (even if all they can share is a kind word or genuine smile), knowing that kindness keeps oneself relaxed and at peace from inside, while praying that their acts of sadaqah can guarantee them a special place in Paradise.

📖 Abdullah ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam was upon the pulpit mentioning charity and abstaining from begging. The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The upper hand is better than the lower hand. The upper hand is the one that gives and the lower hand is the one that takes."

Source: Sahih Bukhari 1362 Sahih Muslim 1033

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/poem-upper-hand-that-gives-is-better.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/05/hadith-be-kind-when-you-find-chance.html 

📑 Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday and include the Muslim Ummah in your Du'as.

Tips: Advice To Single Muslimahs On Dealing With Married Friends

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

🗒️ Question: What advice can you give to single Muslimahs in their late thirties on dealing with married friends who frequently brag about how special the husband is because he is ridiculously generous with his money, works in the medical field or comes from another country?

📝 Answer: 1] When you, as a Muslim, firmly believe that Allah the Almighty controls everything, that whatever He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala chose to give you nobody can take from you, and the things which bring happiness to people in life were already decreed by Allah the All-Knowing even before they were born, you wouldn't be affected at all by jealousy. 

2] Whatever makes a person supposedly happy in this world could be a test from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aa, and every trial comes with its own set of defects, distractions or difficulties. Somebody's love story shared on social media which typically arouses envy may conceal many problems, misunderstandings and tears behind the scenes. If you were to go through their journey, you probably wouldn't be able to cope with the struggles which accompany it. 

Maybe Allah the Most Wise didn't bestow on you such source of joy because He knows that you don't have the capability and suitable environment to deal with its disadvantages appropriately. 

3] Imagine being a kindergarten teacher while the boastful braggarts are little children enthusiastically showcasing their colorful scribbles or jigsaw puzzles they've solved. Instead of scolding them for "showing off" or feeling irrationally jealous, you'd compassionately congratulate them or act like you're impressed, without any decrease in your confidence and contentment with Allah's Qadr/Destiny. 

4] If you're an actual friend, you would resist the urge to act on despicable feelings of envy. True friends mutually want each other to thrive and succeed in both worlds, whereas fake "friends" easily get envious of one another openly or secretly.

5] Whether your friend's husband is from Saudi Arabia, Africa, Singapore, Mars or Jupiter, and whether he's a wealthy CEO or Lamborghini and Ferrari driver, what actually matters, to guarantee lots of blessings in marriage life (with Allah's Will), is the niyyah/intention of both the husband and wife. Muslim spouses who genuinely get married to please Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala are more likely to be happier inwardly than couples who accept a marriage proposal for money or to embellish their public image to pacify some insecurities. 

Stay contented Alhamdulillah that you're not one of those insecure individuals who intentionally go out of their way to make others jealous because they themselves envy somebody else. Understand that Maryam 'alaihas salaam, the mother of Prophet 'Isa 'alaihis salaam, was never married yet she's one of the best women in Jannah Paradise. 

Your unwavering belief in Allah the Most Loving together with your sincere good deeds, not your marital status, is what's essential to be worthy of Jannah's entrance.

~•~ 

📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There is no envy but in two cases: A man whom Allah has given wealth and he spends it rightly (for Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), and a man whom Allah has given wisdom (true guidance and authentic Islamic knowledge) and he judges and teaches with it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 73

Sahih Muslim 816

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If one of you looks at those blessed over him in wealth and appearance, then let him look at those below him."

In another narration, the Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Do not look to those above you (in terms of worldly matters), lest you view the favors of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) as trivial."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125, Sahih Muslim 2963

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/11/poem-thank-allah-and-dont-compare-your.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/note-dont-compare-your-life-to-others.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-three-tips-to-stay-contented-with.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/06/tips-never-compare-your-lifestyle-and.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-dont-compare-your-life-journey-to.html 

Note: Don't Be Too Quick To Ask For Divorce (Avoid These Qualities To Preserve Your Marriage)

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Eleven things, if your husband tries his best to do at least seven of them, then for Allah's sake don't be too quick to ask for divorce: 

1] He strives to pray all the obligatory prayers regularly. 

2] He enjoys reading and reciting from the Noble Qur'an, trying to reflect on Allah's Words whenever he can. 

3] He loves praying in the Masjid and in congregation. 

4] He treats his mother and father with genuine respect. 

5] He is loving, cheerful and caring towards your child/children and his relatives. 

6] He ensures that his job doesn't prevent him from carrying out his religious duties while he earns his income from lawful sources, avoiding ribaa (interest / usury) and gambling as much as possible. 

7] He reminds you to value modesty for Allah's sake and offers kind advice whenever he notices you doing something wrong. 

8] He is admirably capable of making you laugh and smile without being obnoxiously offensive to anybody. 

9] He does what he can to get along with your family and refrains from speaking about them negatively. 

10] He has noteworthy goals and lofty ambitions, including to dutifully care for a large Muslim family, to complete paying off his or a loved one's debts, and to perform Hajj as well as 'Umrah all to please Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala. 

11] Although your husband may not always answer your calls and messages in a timely manner due to stress, preoccupation with work or unreliable internet connection, he actually puts effort into staying connected when he isn't busy and compliments you from time to time. 

❎ Avoid these characteristics as they could lead to divorce: 

1] Greed along with ingratitude - being unsatisfied with Allah's Qadr / Destiny, surrendering to envy and constantly wanting what other couples enjoy. 

2] Selfishness - only being concerned with what you desire, while purposely ignoring your spouse's needs or not giving your husband his right to be legally married to up to four wives. 

3] Impatience - lacking the determination to patiently wait for your husband's arrival, self-development and progress as a striving Muslim. 

4] Suspicion - unfairly mistrusting your spouse without justifiable evidence.

5] Arrogance - not having enough empathy to understand your husband's circumstances, to hear him out and accept his apology. 

6] Oversensitivity due to insecurities - instantly getting upset over trivial issues and making a big deal out of each other's past mistakes. 

7] Unwarranted attachment to this worldly life and ignoring the main purpose of why Allah the Most Powerful created us, to worship Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala sincerely, not enslave ourselves to our nafs, soulmate or society.

~•~

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "Any woman who asks her husband for a divorce when it is not absolutely necessary, the fragrance of Paradise will be forbidden to her."

Sunan Ibn Majah 2055

In-book reference: Book 10, Hadith 40

English translation: Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2055 

📖 Thawban RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whenever a woman asks her husband for a divorce without a strong reason, the fragrance of Paradise becomes forbidden for her."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2226

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut

📖 Jabir RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, shaytan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: 'I have done this and this.' shaytan says: 'you have done nothing.' Another one says: 'I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife.' shaytan embraces him and he says: 'you have done well!'"

Source: Sahih Muslim 2813

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/poem-love-your-husband-for-allah-dont.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/poem-if-my-husband-wanted-divorce-id.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-demerits-of-divorce.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/01/poem-three-tips-to-preserve-your.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/10/poem-its-easy-to-stay-in-love-with-your.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/05/poem-dismiss-shaytans-whispers-as-he.html 

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/16999/%D9%85%D8%B9%D9%86%D9%89-%D8%AD%D8%AF%D9%8A%D8%AB-%D8%A7%D9%8A%D9%85%D8%A7-%D8%A7%D9%85%D8%B1%D8%A7%D8%A9-%D8%B3%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AA-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%B7%D9%84%D8%A7%D9%82

Poem: Keep Serving Allah The Almighty Despite Frequent Mistakes

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💌 Reminder to myself and Muslims who can relate, 

Who notice that their faith levels sometimes fluctuate, 

Motivated when good deeds are done for Allah's sake, 

And when sins are committed they feel guilty, dismayed, 

And afraid of Allah's Justice when mistakes are made: 

~•~ 

You're not a hypocrite if you oftentimes pray late, 

If from time to time you pray Fajr when the sun's rays 

Are visible as you overslept, went to bed late 

Or depression causes you to have some tasks delayed.

What matters is you believe and to Allah you prayed. 

~•~

Don't feel guilty of nifaaq if sometimes you play games, 

Watch videos while making sure you don't misuse your gaze, 

And joke about some friends when they're present or away. 

It's shaytan's job to tempt you so you can lose your way. 

Defeat shaytan by disobeying what he dictates. 

~•~ 

The devil and his armies want you to speculate 

That you'll never be good enough to reach Jannah's gates. 

Don't listen to our enemies. Strive for Allah's sake.

Pray Tahajjud and Duhaa prayer to compensate 

For shortcomings in the past along with some delays. 

~•~ 

Allah is the Most Forgiving, recall that always, 

And Allah rejoices when you repent for His sake.

More beloved to Allah than people who behave 

As if they're "perfect" are Muslims with persistent faith, 

Who won't quit serving Allah despite frequent mistakes.

~•~

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: A man asked the Messenger of Allah, Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam, “What is faith (Imaan)?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If you are happy with your good deeds and saddened by your bad deeds, then you are a believer." The man said, “O Messenger of Allah, what is sin?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If something waivers in your soul (makes you feel uncertain/full of doubts), then you must leave it."

Source: Musnad Ahmed 21695

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "By Allah, I seek forgiveness from Allah and I repent to Him more than seventy times in a day."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5948

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "By Him (Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) in Whose Hand is my soul, if you did not sin, Allah would replace you with people who would sin and they would seek forgiveness from Allah and He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala would forgive them."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2749

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/07/note-always-seek-allahs-forgiveness-and.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/09/poem-join-those-whom-allah-loves-from.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-never-give-up-on-allahs-mercy.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-evolve-and-keep-seeking-allahs.html 

https://abukhadeejah.com/do-not-cease-being-repentant-to-allaah/ 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-careful-of-hypocrites-who-claim-to.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/12/poem-avoid-nifaaqhypocrisy.html 

Hadith: Encouragement To Recite And Read From The Noble Qur'an With A Beautiful Voice

📖 Al-Bara Ibn 'Azib RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beautify the Qur'an with your voices."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 1468

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Lubabah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "He is not one of us who does not recite the Qur'an in a pleasant voice."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 1471

Grade: Jayyid (Very good) according to Al-Nawawi 

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/21706/%D9%85%D8%A7-%D8%B5%D8%AD%D8%A9-%D8%AD%D8%AF%D9%8A%D8%AB-%D8%B2%D9%8A%D9%86%D9%88%D8%A7-%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%82%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%86-%D8%A8%D8%A7%D8%B5%D9%88%D8%A7%D8%AA%D9%83%D9%85 

https://binbaz.org.sa/fatwas/2401/%D8%A8%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%86-%D9%85%D8%B9%D9%86%D9%89-%D9%84%D9%8A%D8%B3-%D9%85%D9%86%D8%A7-%D9%85%D9%86-%D9%84%D9%85-%D9%8A%D8%AA%D8%BA%D9%86-%D8%A8%D8%A7%D9%84%D9%82%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%86