Note: Seven Signs That Your Dear Husband Is An Awesome Father To Your Child/Children

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💚 Seven signs that your husband tries his best to be a good father to your child/children even if he is very busy with work and other responsibilities:- 

1. He tries his best to pray the obligatory Salahs/prayers in the Masjid, especially Salat Al-Fajr and Salat Al-Jumuah, regularly. [✓]

2. He does what he can to wake his family and child/children up for Salah, particularly Salat Al-Fajr, despite his tiredness and sleepiness. [✓]

3. As much as possible he ensures that his income is halal and none of his earnings comes from haraam sources - he never goes near wealth which is knowingly stolen. He does what he can to ensure that all his debts are paid on time. [✓]

4. He shows support and encouragement for his child/children whenever he can, frequently encouraging them to attend Islamic classes and loves it when he notices the enthusiasm of his loved ones to join him in learning more about Islam. [✓]

5. He tries his best to be an effective listener, educator and counselor with noteworthy empathy to both his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children regardless of his frequent busyness, eager to instil upright character and excellent manners in them also by striving to set a good example. [✓]

6. He is remarkable at joking and being charismatically playful with his wife (or multiple wives) and child/children, intelligently understanding when to take certain matters seriously and when to lighten up. He is a compassionate giver and receiver of warm hugs and reassuring words. [✓]

7. He strives for Allah's sake to be protective of his wife (or wives) and child/children, ensuring the safety of their overall well-being including their spiritual wellness in terms of their faith/Imaan. These negative adjectives "arrogant", "selfish", "unprincipled", "immature" and "egocentric" do not describe him at all. [✓]

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📖 Abdullah Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's home and his children, and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6719

Sahih Muslim 1829

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior towards their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih 

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https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/06/note-some-signs-you-and-your-husband.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/11/note-eleven-questions-to-ask-yourself.html  

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/poem-five-signs-that-your-husband-does.html

https://www.salafisounds.com/the-father-and-mother-as-shepherds-over-their-flock-al-adab-al-mufrad-of-imam-al-bukhari-lesson-by-abu-khadeejah-abdul-wahid/

Note: Seriously How Can You Tell That An INTJ Loves You? When They're Forgiving And Enjoy Chatting With You

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 If you're wondering how would most INTJs prove 

Their genuine care without declaring "I love you", 

Observe the following, you know that their love is true 

When they gaze at you directly while speaking to you

And rather than glaring they'll attempt to smile or soothe.

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Be certain that an INTJ by choice loves you

When they're able to withstand all silly things you do 

At times, they don't mind your late replies, and they're amused 

By corny jokes you share, and the trials you go through

Amplify their loyalty and sympathy for you.

~•~

They won't ditch you quickly, when INTJs love you. 

If you've spoiled a chapter many times, they'll start anew - 

Rewinding the story, loving each journey with you, 

Wanting you to not quit since they won't give up on you. 

Projects with a purpose aren't easily eschewed.

~•~

When an INTJ enjoys conversing with you, 

Asking random questions about yourself, what you do, 

And curiously inquiring about your current moods, 

You can tell they're contented with connecting with you,

Counting you as a friend if they often defend you. 

~•~

Instead of seeming too serious, quiet and aloof, 

INTJs would adjust themselves when they love you, 

Patiently wait for you to catch up, hope you'll improve, 

And cherish your value with resolute gratitude. 

They're choosy; so it's fine if they're loved by very few.

~•~

📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

Al-Azimabadi said, “That he hates for the sake of Allah does not mean he harms the one he hates. Rather, the hatred is for his unbelief and (bad character) disobedience.”

Source: ‘Awn al-Ma’būd 4681

📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."

Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 5

https://abukhadeejah.com/characteristics-of-a-righteous-wife-in-light-of-the-quran-and-sunnah-part-1/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-marital-things-you-can-relate-to.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/04/note-11-ways-intj-shows-they-love-you.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/05/note-5-things-which-some-intjs-cant.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-friendship-with-intjs-what-are.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/09/note-intjs-dont-play-hard-to-get-if.html 

https://personalitygrowth.com/intj-loyalty-what-being-loyal-means-to-the-intj/

Links: Islamic PDF "The Four Foundations Of Shirk" English Translation

📂 Islamic PDF document English translation of the book on "the four foundations of shirk / polytheism" - original book in Arabic language written by sheikh Muhammad Ibn AbdulWahhab and explanation by sheikh Salih ibn Fawzan ibn Abdullah Al-Fawzan, May Allah the Most Merciful have mercy on them, accept their good deeds and make them and all of us among the people of Jannatul Ferdaus with Allah's Mercy. Ameen. 

(as sadaqa jaariyah, document not for sale):

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1kSLJX8VJnC6rpy9bE8ptKM-nMu0T5k52/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1kSLJX8VJnC6rpy9bE8ptKM-nMu0T5k52/view?usp=drivesdk

Note: Unaffected By The Idiocy Of The Insecure, Jealous And Ugly Inwardly

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📜 Question: A neighbor and acquaintance promised to me some time ago that when they get married (for the 2nd or 3rd time) they would surely invite me to their wedding. Just recently I discovered that she already had her wedding yesterday but she, as well as all our mutual acquaintances, never informed me of her remarriage. If you were in my situation, how would you deal as an INTJ-A? 

📝 Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best. If I were in that case, I wouldn't feel surprised at all - especially if she is a former divorcee who failed to control her unstable emotions when she was previously married. You can't fully trust a person who allows their idiotic feelings and negative thoughts to spoil moral values and basic etiquettes. 

She promised to invite you in the past and proved to you in the present how she can never be trusted in the future from now on. Never rely on her 

Inn-sha-Allah for anything, for any advice and transaction, because her despicable efforts to make you feel excluded or left out, without even a genuine apology, confirms that she is intensely envious of you. 

Perhaps she envies how you were married at a younger age, that your husband, Alhamdulillah, is more than a gazillion times better than the stranger who proposed to her to possibly take over whatever business she may be managing temporarily or she despises your inner beauty, admirable Sabr and strength to faithfully welcome polygyny for Allah's sake.

Knowing for sure that certain individuals are massively jealous of you is enough reason for your soul to remain contented Alhamdulillah that you don't have their inward ugliness, jealousy and enormous load of insecurities. 

Don't bother asking them why they broke their promise (again most likely) and refuse to ask anyone else how their wedding went. Don't bother stalking any of their online posts nor giving them a belated gift to demonstrate artificial courtesy. You can't be totally courteous with someone whose acts more often resemble the moodiness and misconduct of aggravated monkeys and donkeys.

While you strive for Allah's sake to avoid befriending unreliable individuals, appreciate the few Muslim friends and loved ones whom you genuinely care for and maintain dignified character as much as you can wherever you are. 

Let these types of people with lousy low morals remind you how it's a blessing Alhamdulillah that you are nothing like them in being unethical, insecure and miserable inwardly. Avoiding them for Allah's sake online and offline is also an excellent opportunity to train our patience and enhance our ability to refrain from going anywhere near the deeds which Allah the Most Wise commanded us to avoid.

Also check:

Note: Five Probable Reasons Why Some People Can't Always Include You To Their List Of Invited Guests

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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah, hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."

Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject." 

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109

Sahih Muslim 2638 

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (The Almighty) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://abukhadeejah.com/how-to-ask-allah-for-wellbeing-safety-security-in-these-difficult-times/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-allahs-love-is-more-important-than.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-stay-connected-to-allah-and-youll.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/02/note-differences-between-people-who.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/note-some-factors-which-could-prevent.html  

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-signs-of-immature-adults-what-it.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/08/tips-what-grown-up-bullies-often-do-and.html

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/10/tips-on-dealing-with-adult-bullying.html

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Note: What Some INTJs Do When Feeling Tired At Times

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📜 Question: As a Muslimah whose MBTI personality type is INTJ-A, what are some things that you would usually do when you feel tired? 

📝 Answer: 1. Increase saying Du'a and Adhkaar. 

2. Read at least a page from the Noble Qur'an to enhance inner peace, strengthen my faith Imaan and maintain emotional stability. 

3. Recall and reminisce about all the countless gifts and blessings which Allah the Most Wise has granted me Alhamdulillah in the past and present, appreciating how my current situation is a lot better than the circumstances of several individuals worldwide, in a contented not smug kind of way, thanking Allah the Almighty especially for guiding me to the truth Islam and blessing me with loving parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen) who cared enough to ensure that I keep learning more about Islam until we meet Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala.

4. Continue avoiding toxic writings, content and negative people online and offline. 

5. Take at least 45 minutes nap if necessary while listening to a tranquil recitation from the Noble Qur'an on an electronic gadget.

6. Selectively watch motivational or educational videos to review or discover something new, read inspiring quotes and articles, and listen to some Islamic lectures or learn from a number of beneficial reminders to stay motivated for Allah's sake. 

7. Remind myself that this dunya / world together with its various tests and challenges, as well as emotions, are all temporary, and that true joy and eternal rest can only be found in Jannah Paradise. 

8. Look forward Inn-sha-Allah to expiation of previous sins every time I feel somewhat fatigued, stressed or sleepy. 

9. Spend some quality time with a loved one such as my dear husband when he is around and not busy or talk for some minutes with another Muslimah (online or face to face) whom I care about for Allah's sake and I regard them as trustworthy - not a single ounce guilty of carrying jealous resentment towards me.

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📖 Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, which of the people are most severely tested?” The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "They are the prophets, then the next best (in terms of righteousness), then the next best. A man is put to trial according to his Deen/religion. If he is firm in his religion, his trials will be more severe. If he is weak in his religion, he is put to trial according to his strength in religion. The servant will continue to be put to trial until he is left walking upon the earth without any sin."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2398

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, nor even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) will expiate his sins by it."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318 

Sahih Muslim 2573

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (The Almighty) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 

https://abukhadeejah.com/how-to-ask-allah-for-wellbeing-safety-security-in-these-difficult-times/

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2020/04/poem-never-give-up-on-allahs-mercy.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/09/tips-sharing-some-11-tips-to-minimize.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/11/note-busy-intjs-vs-avoidant-intjs.html 

https://personalitygrowth.com/heres-how-each-personality-type-behaves-when-tired/