بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

Note: What I As An INTJ-A Have Learned From Some MBTI Personality Types

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📑 Some advice or lessons which we can learn Alhamdulillah from some of the 16 MBTI personality types - from an INTJ: 
1. INFJ - Trust Allah the Almighty always while listening to your intuition without allowing emotions and people's perceptions to negatively influence decision making.
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2. ENFJ - The size of a person's social circle doesn't necessarily determine their worth. Just because an individual is carefully selective concerning their choice of close friends it does not mean that they are "lonely" nor concealing bad intentions.
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3. ESFJ and ISFJ - Regularly talking about other people or discussing personal matters isn't reliable evidence that they're special to you. Oftentimes one way to prove that your affection for somebody is true is by respecting their privacy and refusing to disclose sensitive information, particularly if such info actually has nothing to do with you. 
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4. ISTJ - While it's an admirable trait to be organized and diligent, there are occasional moments when it is wiser or way more efficient to try being lenient and flexible.
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5. ESTJ and ENTJ - While it's a positive thing to focus on obtaining results, completing tasks and accomplishing goals, make sure that your deliberate choice at times to disregard some individuals' sensitivity does not compromise your values nor conflict with your beliefs.
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6. ENFP and INFP - While being creative or very imaginative can make you an interesting individual to work with (for some), don't allow excessive hope and yearning for a wide range of possibilities to cause you to become delusional or distracted from the main goal, theme, plan, purpose or idea. 
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7. ISTP and INTP - Never assume that everybody whom Allah the Most Wise decrees you'll meet on earth already knows and comprehends all your thoughts and expectations. There are instances when you need to be clear and more vocal about them if you wish to see more outcomes than wishful thinking. In my opinion, it's okay to remind and emphasize one's instructions even if many may find the reminders superfluous or "annoying".
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8. ESFP and ESTP - While being observant, alert and attentive to details are helpful qualities most of the time, not every single person, thing and online content always deserves your full attention. Know what and who to avoid for Allah's sake. In order to thrive or succeed
Inn-sha-Allah as a Muslim, ensure that your choices and overall conduct don't mislead you into acting like an irrational bully (some ExTPs) due to an offended ego.
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9. ISFP - Sometimes what you want and desire isn't beneficial or for your own good in both worlds. Realize (to some ISFPs who selfishly care more about their wants than the consequences of their actions) that intentional stupidity, stubborn ignorance and unreasonable self-entitlement are not attractive at all.
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah (The Almighty) than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
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Monday, October 23, 2023

Poem: Some Tips On Dealing With Those Who Mistreat You Due To "Religious Arrogance"

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ If I were asked "How would you deal with someone older 
Acting arrogant and "religiously superior" 
And clearly towards you they display ugly manners? 
They exclude you often, loathe it when you've got answers, 
And scowl when you've got some knowledge to share with others?"
~•~
I'd say: Avoid them for Allah's sake. Maintain Sabr. 
Following their Facebook timelines don't even bother. 
If they've got uploads on YouTube don't watch them either. 
Sly and spiteful words from them likewise mustn't matter. 
They lack inner peace with all that envy and rancor.
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If they were truly contented, enriched with Sabr 
And strong faith Imaan distanced them from foul character, 
You wouldn't notice them disclosing ugly manners, 
And doubting your motives is not something they're after 
Daily, so you wonder if they're guilty of kibr -
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...the kind of kibr which makes their eyes roll whenever
You ask questions, have some knowledge to share with others, 
Or correct and advise them when they're caught with errors - 
Wretched pride which compels them to presume "Whatever. 
Only I should speak. I'm religiously much better."
~•~
Whether they're sad, jealous or inwardly insecure, 
Know that Allah shall deal with them in the hereafter. 
Them being a lot older doesn't mean they're wiser. 
Wise people don't let feelings spoil values and manners. 
Rude souls train us to not copy their bad behaviors.
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📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed (or atom) of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." Someone said, "But a man loves to have beautiful clothes and shoes." The beloved Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, Allah (The Almighty) is Beautiful and He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) loves beauty. Arrogance means rejecting the truth and looking down on the people."
In another narration, the noble Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "No one who has the weight of a seed of faith (Imaan) in his heart will enter Hellfire."
Source: Sahih Muslim 91
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Saturday, October 21, 2023

Note: When An INTJ Cancels Attending An Event Or Meeting

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
🗒️ Question: When would most INTJs cancel attending a gathering or online meeting (via Google Meet, Zoom etc.)?
📝 Answer: 1. When they've figured out, with Allah's Will and guidance from Him Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, after thorough evaluation and reflective analysis, that staying in or doing something else is a wiser choice and more worthwhile alternative to unwillingly attending a social event or meeting, particularly if a number of the attendees include individuals whom the INTJs reasonably despise or simply won't trust. 
2. When they are so busy and preoccupied with several tasks which the INTJs affirm are more important than socializing begrudgingly or sincerely attempting to act artificial.
3. When they realize that attending such social event or online meeting is actually a lousy idea while they can visualize all the probable problematic outcomes which could result from mingling reluctantly with incompatible strangers whose integrity and background are undoubtedly questionable. 

🌼 Adjectives that would describe an INTJ who unapologetically decides to cancel going to a cheesy social event or attending an irrelevant online meeting?
Indifferent, relieved, unaffected, contented, accomplished, triumphant, victorious, impressed (by their willful decision to stay in), or Alhamdulillah grateful.
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📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase 'if only' opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Monday, October 16, 2023

Poem: It's Not A Big Deal If You Got Deleted From A Group Chat

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

📝 Some tips from an INTJ on what you can say 
To yourself if you found out you got kicked out one day
From a group chat with members who don't want you to stay, 
So you can move on confidently without dismay, 
Far away from fakery, toxic vibes and false claims: 
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"They deleted you from that group? So what? It's okay - 
For behaving like real bullies and pals who are fake, 
And for partaking in gossip or deranged debates 
The pointless group's members are not at all being paid.
Their lies and absolute nonsense won't enhance your faith. 
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So don't fret about why they didn't want you to stay. 
You're like a diamond often abandoned by snakes, 
A treasure chest with pearls in the middle of a bay 
But some clowns don't know your value so they walk away, 
And "pirates" who evade you just dress up for cosplay.
~•~
Don't question your self-worth. You can't force people to change 
Nor urge them to connect if your goals are not the same. 
They're insecure; you're confident. You're honest; they're fake. 
In building true friendship there's no way if that's the case.
You're pro self-improvement; they'd rather deteriorate.
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They're obsessed with gossip and mocking people's mistakes; 
You love minding your own business and thrive in your lane. 
You display integrity; fakes you intimidate. 
It's a blessing actually to be dismissed by fakes. 
Your time in detecting their motives they kindly saved."
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📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim 
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and knowingly committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. 
By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.' Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.' Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

Friday, October 13, 2023

Note: The More You Love Your Husband The More You Think Of Him And Include Him In Your Du'as

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
💚 Eleven thoughts which you as a Muslim wife may often think of and relate to when missing your husband who's busy with work, employed in a different city or if you're in a polygynous marriage:- 
1. "I wonder how my dear husband is doing at this time. Is he asleep or awake?" 💭 
2. "Alhamdulillah I woke up early for Salat Al-Fajr today. I hope my husband already prayed." 💭
3. "Alhamdulillah, nice weather this morning. I wonder what the atmosphere is like where my dear hubby is, and if he's sleeping right now or wide awake?" 💭
4. "This food/drink is something which my husband would really like. I wish he was here so we could enjoy this meal together." 💭 
5. "Washing the dishes, doing the laundry and cooking are good opportunities for me to think of my dear husband and reminisce about all the amazing experiences we've enjoyed." 💭 
6. "Alhamdulillah, instead of feeling jealous and insecure whenever I notice couples demonstrating their love for one another publicly, the deep-seated loyalty I have for my beloved husband and genuine appreciation for him only increase." 💭
7. "This reminds of that time when my dear husband also........... I wish I could rewind that memorable instance again." 💭
8. "My husband would definitely love this... I wish he were here with me." 💭
9. "Alhamdulillah I'm truly contented staying married to my dear husband. In so many ways he has been such a blessing and an inspiration to me." 💭
10. "I miss my dear husband's Qur'an recitation voice. Listening to him recite is one of the main sources of inner peace. I wish he was here with me."  💭 
11. "Every time I hear somebody calling the Adhan, it reminds me of how my husband's Adhan voice is so much better and more comforting. In Jannah Paradise 
Inn-sha-Allah I look forward to spending the rest of my life with him." 💭
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📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter (Jannah) Paradise from any gate she wishes."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife." 
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman otherwise you will be a loser."
Sahih Al-Bukhari 5090
In-book reference: Book 67 Hadith 28
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27