Islamic reminders, Hadith, notes, poems, poetry, lessons, reflections etc.
بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.
Saturday, June 8, 2024
Monday, June 3, 2024
Poem: When You Seem Intimidating To Some, Expect To Be Envied Or Ignored Sometimes
💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📜 When you've been described as "intimidating" by some
Or "somewhat scary" by someone whether old or young,
While you trust Allah the Almighty whilst His servants'
Opinions and complaints don't affect your decisions,
Stay firm, don't change yourself to appease Allah's servants.
~•~
When you're intimidating to clowns whose confidence
Is clearly low or non-existent, very often
You may go through exclusion in most situations -
A lot may shun sitting near you while others would run
Away from any chance to prolong conversations.
~•~
At times you're the topic discussed by jealous women
Through disgusting rumors or unjust accusations,
Badly mentioned by snakes who envy your achievements,
Then ignored on purpose in countless situations,
Avoided like how the sun's hot rays are sometimes shunned.
~•~
You're too bright or too fierce for some, and that's fine as long
As you don't purposely aim to oppress anyone.
If you're assertive and don't fear seeming different,
Those threatened by your strong presence may do what they can
To make you feel left out or like a lonesome alien.
~•~
Don't be influenced by their nonsense. As a Muslim,
Strive to pass Allah's tests with patience and resilience.
Continue researching to enhance intelligence,
And when you're eschewed by some childish jealous women,
Move on, thank Allah you're not like insecure humans.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Darda RadhiAllahu 'anhu said: "A righteous companion is better than loneliness, and loneliness is better than an evil companion. A good writer is better than one silent, and one silent is better than an evil writer."
Source: Rawdat Al-‘Uqalā 56
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: "If only I had done something else." Rather say: "Allah has decreed what He wills." Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2664
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
Sunday, June 2, 2024
Notes: INFJ Door Slam vs INTJ Detachment
In The Name Of Allah
The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
Both the INFJ door slam and the INTJ detachment are coping mechanisms used by these personality types to deal with situations or individuals that they find overwhelming or harmful. While there may be some overlap in how they manifest, there are also distinct differences between the two.
1. **INFJ Door Slam**:
- The INFJ door slam refers to the tendency of INFJs to abruptly cut off contact or emotionally distance themselves from someone who has repeatedly hurt or disappointed them.
- This action is often a last resort for INFJs after they have tried to address the issues or conflicts in the relationship but have not seen any improvement.
- The door slam can be triggered by a single significant event or a culmination of smaller incidents that have eroded the INFJ's trust or emotional well-being.
- INFJs may feel a deep sense of betrayal or sadness when they execute the door slam, as it goes against their desire for harmony and connection.
2. **INTJ Detachment**:
- INTJ detachment involves withdrawing emotionally from a situation or person in order to maintain objectivity and preserve their mental and emotional energy.
- Unlike the INFJ door slam, which is often a response to personal hurt or disappointment, INTJ detachment is primarily driven by a rational assessment of the situation.
- INTJs may detach themselves from a project, goal, or individual if they determine that it is no longer beneficial or aligned with their long-term objectives.
- Detachment for INTJs is a strategic decision rather than an emotional reaction, and they may continue to interact with the person or situation in a detached manner, focusing on logic and efficiency rather than emotional investment.
In summary, while both the INFJ door slam and the INTJ detachment involve creating distance from something or someone, the door slam is typically an emotional response to personal hurt or betrayal, whereas detachment for INTJs is a strategic decision based on rational evaluation.
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/06/poem-disconnecting-from-toxic-people.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/08/note-showcase-any-of-these-7-bad-traits.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-signs-of-intj-door-slam-or-you.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/02/poem-meaning-of-door-slam-to-muslim.html
https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/01/note-some-factors-which-could-prevent.html
Saturday, June 1, 2024
Poem: Yes I Forgave Them. No I Don't Wish To Be Their Friend.
💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful
📜 Yes, while I understand the virtues of forgiveness,
You can't force me to build and maintain toxic friendships.
Yes, while I can forgive what so-and-so did and said,
I won't forget the fact they can't really be trusted.
Since I don't trust them while their vibes just invite conflict,
And their presence in my opinion triggers distress,
I know I'm better off if they're far and avoided.
They're unreliable, selfish, so strangely nervous
When around me as if they conceal absurd secrets,
And they're too negative, at times seem narcissistic,
Frequently unable to make rational choices
Because their mood swings control them and they lack the wit
And willingness to seek or learn Islamic knowledge.
Plus, we're too different. They're overly sensitive,
In conserving energy they're uninterested,
In failing to prevent gossip they show cowardice,
They're not creative nor impressive I acknowledge,
And overall they're very boring and so childish
From what I've witnessed. Their uneasy body language
And nervousness make me view them as guilty culprits
Trying to hide information that's ridiculous -
Either they're concealing how they're intimidated
By my integrity or they're truly envious
Of me for countless reasons or they're simply cautious
Of getting caught regarding their lies and injustice.
While I forgave them, I don't want their toxic friendship.
Why place yourself in situations with added stress?
Though they're forgiven, befriending them is not needed
For success in both worlds, and if Allah decreed it -
That we'd never connect despite physical nearness.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The souls are conscripted soldiers. They come together upon what they recognize, and they differ upon what they reject."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 3109
Sahih Muslim 2638
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah has perfected the faith (Imaan)."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Musa RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Verily, the parable (similitude, example) of good company and a bad company is only that of a seller of musk and a blacksmith. The seller of musk will give you some perfume, you will buy some, or you will notice a good smell (pleasant scent). As for the blacksmith, he will burn your clothes or you will notice a bad smell."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5534, Sahih Muslim 2628
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to An-Nawawi
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