Note: Some Tips Related To Qur'an Memorization (ChatGPT)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

💎 Memorizing long verses from the Noble Qur'an requires dedication and effective strategies. Here are some methods and tips that Muslim students might use:

1. **Repetition and Consistency**: Repeating verses frequently helps reinforce memory. Establishing a daily routine where they recite and review memorized verses consistently can be very effective.

2. **Chunking**: Breaking down long verses into smaller, manageable sections or "chunks" can make memorization easier. Students can memorize and master one chunk before moving on to the next.

3. **Understanding the Meaning**: Grasping the meaning of the verses can enhance memorization. When students understand what they are memorizing, they are more likely to remember it.

4. **Visualization**: Associating verses with visual images or scenarios can help in memorization. Creating mental images related to the verses can make recall easier.

5. **Listening to Recitations**: Listening to recitations by proficient reciters can help students get familiar with the correct pronunciation and intonation, which can aid in memorization.

6. **Regular Review**: Reviewing previously memorized verses regularly is crucial to retain what has been learned. This helps in maintaining fluency and preventing forgetfulness.

7. **Seeking Support**: Studying in groups or with a partner can provide motivation and allow students to test each other, offering support and encouragement.

**Additional Tips for Retention**:

- **Dua and Prayer**: Asking Allah the Almighty for assistance and making sincere supplications for help in memorization can be a powerful aid.

  

- **Healthy Lifestyle**: Maintaining a balanced diet, proper sleep, and good physical health can improve cognitive function and memory.

- **Avoiding Distractions**: Creating a focused environment free from distractions during study sessions can enhance concentration and retention.

- **Setting Goals**: Setting specific, achievable goals can help track progress and stay motivated.

- **Practical Application**: Applying the memorized verses in daily prayers or recitations can reinforce retention and ensure the verses are ingrained in memory.

By incorporating these strategies, students can effectively memorize and retain long verses from the Noble Qur'an with Allah’s Will.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Several factors can influence how quickly adults memorize and review verses from the Noble Qur'an:

1. **Prior Knowledge and Experience**: Students with a background in memorizing smaller texts or those who have previously memorized parts of the Noble Qur'an may find it easier and quicker to memorize new verses.

2. **Cognitive Abilities**: Individual differences in cognitive abilities, such as memory retention, focus, and processing speed, can affect how quickly someone can memorize and recall verses.

3. **Consistency and Routine**: Students who follow a consistent study routine and dedicate regular time each day to memorization often progress faster compared to those who study sporadically.

4. **Study Techniques**: The effectiveness of memorization techniques, such as chunking, repetition, and understanding, varies among individuals. Those using more effective methods may memorize more quickly.

5. **Motivation and Commitment**: High motivation and personal commitment can accelerate the memorization process. Students with a strong desire and dedication often put in more effort and time.

6. **Health and Well-being**: Physical and mental health play significant roles in cognitive function. Adequate sleep, proper nutrition, and stress management can enhance memorization capabilities.

7. **Environmental Factors**: A supportive and distraction-free study environment helps in faster memorization. Students in conducive environments with fewer interruptions may find it easier to focus and memorize.

8. **Quality of Review**: The frequency and effectiveness of review sessions can impact retention and memorization speed. Students who regularly review what they have learned are likely to progress more quickly.

9. **Support and Guidance**: Access to mentors, teachers, or study groups can provide valuable support, feedback, and motivation, potentially speeding up the memorization process.

10. **Personal Learning Style**: Different individuals have varied learning styles. Some may benefit from auditory learning, while others might find visual or kinesthetic approaches more effective. Aligning study methods with personal learning preferences can enhance memorization speed.

Each student’s unique combination of these factors will influence how quickly they can memorize and effectively review Qur'anic verses.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Memorizing a chapter or verses from the Noble Qur'an is a noble and rewarding endeavor. Here are some dos and don’ts to help you in the process:

### Dos:

1. **Set Clear Goals:** Define specific verses or chapters to memorize and set achievable milestones.

2. **Create a Study Plan:** Allocate consistent and dedicated time each day for memorization.

3. **Understand the Meanings:** Study the meanings and context of the verses to enhance retention and comprehension.

4. **Use Repetition:** Regularly review previously memorized material to reinforce your memory.

5. **Recite Out Loud:** Recite the verses aloud to improve memorization and pronunciation.

6. **Seek Support:** Engage with a teacher or a study group for guidance and motivation.

7. **Make Dua:** Pray for ease and success in your memorization efforts.

8. **Use Proper Tajweed:** Learn and apply the rules of Tajweed to ensure correct pronunciation and recitation.

### Don’ts:

1. **Avoid Overloading:** Don’t try to memorize too much at once; break it into manageable portions.

2. **Don’t Rush:** Take your time to memorize accurately rather than quickly.

3. **Avoid Distractions:** Choose a quiet and distraction-free environment for memorization.

4. **Don’t Neglect Review:** Regularly review what you’ve already memorized to maintain retention.

5. **Don’t Memorize Without Understanding:** Avoid memorizing verses without understanding their meanings and context.

6. **Don’t Skip Practice:** Consistency is key; don’t skip your memorization sessions.

By following these guidelines, 

Inn-sha-Allah you can make your memorization process more effective and spiritually enriching.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

Here are three sample schedules for memorizing a set of verses from the Noble Qur'an within 6 days. Each schedule assumes a manageable portion of verses and is designed to facilitate consistent memorization and review.

### **Schedule 1: Memorizing 2 Pages (Approximately 20-24 Verses)**

**Day 1:**

- **Morning:** Memorize Verses 1-5

- **Evening:** Review Verses 1-5 and memorize Verses 6-10

**Day 2:**

- **Morning:** Review Verses 1-10 and memorize Verses 11-15

- **Evening:** Review Verses 11-15 and memorize Verses 16-20

**Day 3:**

- **Morning:** Review Verses 1-20 and memorize Verses 21-24

- **Evening:** Review all memorized verses (1-24)

**Day 4:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-24)

- **Evening:** Practice recitation and correct any errors

**Day 5:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-24)

- **Evening:** Focus on problem areas and recite aloud

**Day 6:**

- **Morning:** Final review of all verses (1-24)

- **Evening:** Recite all verses to a teacher or study partner for feedback

### **Schedule 2: Memorizing 10 Verses (Shorter Verses)**

**Day 1:**

- **Morning:** Memorize Verses 1-3

- **Evening:** Review Verses 1-3 and memorize Verses 4-5

**Day 2:**

- **Morning:** Review Verses 1-5 and memorize Verses 6-7

- **Evening:** Review Verses 6-7 and memorize Verses 8-10

**Day 3:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-10)

- **Evening:** Practice recitation and correct errors

**Day 4:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-10)

- **Evening:** Recite verses to a study partner for feedback

**Day 5:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-10)

- **Evening:** Focus on memorizing any difficult verses

**Day 6:**

- **Morning:** Final review and recitation of all verses (1-10)

- **Evening:** Full recitation with reflection on the meanings of those verses.

### **Schedule 3: Memorizing 1 Page (Approximately 10-12 Verses)**

**Day 1:**

- **Morning:** Memorize Verses 1-3

- **Evening:** Review Verses 1-3 and memorize Verses 4-6

**Day 2:**

- **Morning:** Review Verses 1-6 and memorize Verses 7-9

- **Evening:** Review Verses 7-9 and memorize Verses 10-12

**Day 3:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-12)

- **Evening:** Practice recitation and correct errors

**Day 4:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-12)

- **Evening:** Recite verses to a teacher or study partner

**Day 5:**

- **Morning:** Review all verses (1-12)

- **Evening:** Focus on challenging verses

**Day 6:**

- **Morning:** Final review and recitation of all verses (1-12)

- **Evening:** Reflect on the meanings and application

Adjust these schedules according to the length and complexity of the verses you aim to memorize. Consistent practice and review, with sincerity Ikhlaas, Inn-sha-Allah are keys to successful memorization.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

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Inn-sha-Allah which you and others can occasionally read and benefit from 

Inn-sha-Allah so your faith Imaan levels can be strengthened:

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Note: Some Notes Related To Micromanaging (ChatGPT)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Micromanaging involves closely controlling or supervising every small detail of a task or project, often leaving little autonomy to others. It can lead to frustration and reduced effectiveness.

**Signs of Micromanaging at School:**

1. **Overly Detailed Instructions:** Providing excessively detailed directions for every aspect of a student's work or project.

2. **Frequent Check-Ins:** Regularly checking on a student's progress without giving them the space to work independently.

3. **Intervening Often:** Stepping in to correct or modify a student’s work even for minor issues.

4. **Lack of Trust:** Showing reluctance to let students take initiative or make their own decisions.

**Signs of Micromanaging Among Family:**

1. **Controlling Daily Routines:** Dictating how family members should handle daily tasks or decisions, from chores to personal matters.

2. **Excessive Supervision:** Constantly monitoring and correcting family members' actions or decisions.

3. **Involvement in Personal Choices:** Intervening in personal decisions, like career choices or social activities, beyond what is supportive.

4. **Lack of Independence:** Preventing family members from managing their own responsibilities or solving problems on their own.

In both contexts, micromanaging can lead to resentment and hinder growth or independence. Balancing guidance with allowing space for autonomy is key.

⤴️ ChatGPT

Some examples of micromanaging and alternative actions that encourage autonomy and trust:

1. **Example: Checking Every Email**

   - **Micromanaging:** Constantly reviewing and editing every email a team member drafts before they send it.

   - **Alternative Action:** Provide general guidelines and trust the team member to draft and send their emails independently.

2. **Example: Overseeing Every Detail of a Project**

   - **Micromanaging:** Dictating every small detail of a project, from the exact format to the specific steps involved.

   - **Alternative Action:** Outline the overall goals and allow team members to plan and execute the details with their own approach.

3. **Example: Controlling Daily Routines**

   - **Micromanaging:** Directing how family members should complete daily chores or handle personal tasks.

   - **Alternative Action:** Set clear expectations and standards, then allow family members to handle the tasks in their own way.

4. **Example: Frequent Interventions in Decision-Making**

   - **Micromanaging:** Stepping in to make decisions for others, even in minor matters like what type of supplies to use or what methods to follow.

   - **Alternative Action:** Offer advice when asked and support decision-making processes without taking over.

5. **Example: Overseeing Study Sessions**

   - **Micromanaging:** Constantly checking on and correcting a student’s homework or study sessions.

   - **Alternative Action:** Encourage self-directed study by offering tools and resources and only stepping in when the student requests help.

6. **Example: Constantly Monitoring Work Progress**

   - **Micromanaging:** Requesting daily updates and progress reports on every task or project.

   - **Alternative Action:** Set up regular check-ins at agreed intervals and focus on outcomes rather than daily activities.

By shifting from micromanaging to empowering others, you foster a more collaborative and trust-based environment.

⤴️ ChatGPT

**Advantages of Micromanaging Consistently:**

1. **Increased Control:** Ensures that tasks are completed exactly as envisioned, which can be useful for highly detailed or critical projects.

2. **Immediate Problem Identification:** Allows for early detection and correction of mistakes or deviations from the plan.

3. **Consistency in Quality:** Maintains a uniform standard of work when strict adherence to guidelines is required.

4. **Enhanced Supervision:** Provides direct oversight and detailed feedback, which can be beneficial for tasks requiring precision.

**Disadvantages of Micromanaging Consistently:**

1. **Reduced Employee Autonomy:** Limits the ability of team members or family members to make decisions and use their own problem-solving skills.

2. **Lower Morale:** Can lead to frustration and decreased motivation due to perceived lack of trust or empowerment.

3. **Increased Workload:** Requires significant time and effort from the micromanager, which can be inefficient and lead to burnout.

4. **Stifled Creativity:** Discourages creative problem solving and personal initiative by focusing on rigid adherence to specific methods.

5. **Dependence on the Micromanager:** Can create a reliance on the micromanager for every decision, hindering the development of independent skills.

Balancing control with autonomy is often more effective in fostering a productive and motivated environment.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

In the MBTI framework, tendencies toward micromanaging or minding one's own business can be influenced by personality type preferences. 

**Types more likely to micromanage:**

1. **ESTJ (Extraverted, Sensing, Thinking, Judging):** They value structure, order, and efficiency, and often feel compelled to oversee details to ensure everything meets their standards.

2. **ENTJ (Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Judging):** They are goal-oriented and may micromanage to ensure tasks align with their strategic vision and high standards.

3. **ISTJ (Introverted, Sensing, Thinking, Judging):** They prioritize accuracy and consistency and might micromanage to make sure processes are followed precisely.

4. **ISFJ (Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, Judging):** Although typically supportive, their strong sense of duty can lead them to micromanage to ensure all aspects of a task are handled correctly.

**Types more likely to mind their own business:**

1. **INFP (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving):** They are more focused on personal values and are less concerned with controlling others, preferring to respect individual autonomy.

2. **ISFP (Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, Perceiving):** They value personal space and freedom, avoiding interference in others' work.

3. **ENFP (Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving):** They are more focused on big-picture ideas and less interested in micromanaging the details of others' tasks.

4. **ENTP (Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving):** They prefer flexibility over control, usually avoiding micromanagement.

These tendencies are generalizations and individual behavior can vary based on many factors, including personal experiences and situational contexts.

⤴️ Some notes from ChatGPT

If you have a tendency to micromanage, here are some strategies to help you manage this tendency and foster a more collaborative and efficient work environment:

1. **Delegate Effectively:** Trust your team members by assigning tasks based on their strengths and expertise. Clearly communicate expectations and deadlines, but allow them the freedom to complete the tasks in their own way.

2. **Set Clear Goals:** Establish clear, measurable objectives and provide guidance on how to achieve them. This can help reduce the need for constant oversight while ensuring that everyone is aligned.

3. **Communicate Openly:** Maintain open lines of communication with your team. Regular check-ins can provide updates without requiring micromanagement. Use these opportunities to offer support and feedback.

4. **Focus on Outcomes:** Shift your focus from the process to the results. Allow team members to find their own methods for achieving the desired outcomes, and evaluate their performance based on results rather than the specific steps they took.

5. **Practice Patience:** Give team members time to demonstrate their skills and capabilities. Understand that mistakes are part of the learning process and can lead to growth and improvement.

6. **Seek Feedback:** Ask for feedback from your team about your management style. This can provide insights into how your micromanagement might be affecting them and help you make necessary adjustments.

7. **Develop Self-Awareness:** Reflect on your reasons for micromanaging. Understanding your motivations and fears can help you address the root causes and build trust in your team.

8. **Encourage Autonomy:** Support team members in taking initiative and making decisions. Recognize their contributions and celebrate successes to build confidence and reduce the need for oversight.

By implementing these strategies, you can create a more empowering and productive work environment, leading to better outcomes and increased job satisfaction for everyone involved.

⤴️ ChatGPT

In Islam, the principle of enjoining good and forbidding evil is an important part of maintaining moral and ethical standards within the community. However, knowing when to offer guidance and when to avoid micromanaging involves a balance of wisdom, context, and sensitivity.

**Meaningful and Purposeful Guidance:**

1. **When There Is Clear Harm:** If a person's actions clearly lead to harm or injustice, providing guidance is crucial. This includes situations where someone's actions negatively impact others or themselves in significant ways.

2. **When the Individual Is Open to Advice:** Offering guidance is most effective when the person is receptive and open to it. This helps ensure that the advice is well-received and potentially acted upon.

3. **In a Supportive Manner:** When giving advice, it's important to approach it with kindness and empathy. Offering help in a supportive, non-judgmental way is more likely to lead to positive change.

4. **When You Have Authority or Expertise:** If you have a position of authority or expertise in a particular area, providing guidance may be more appropriate and impactful.

**Avoiding Micromanaging:**

1. **Respecting Personal Autonomy:** Islam emphasizes individual responsibility and personal accountability. Micromanaging can undermine personal growth and autonomy. It's important to allow individuals to make their own choices and learn from their experiences.

2. **In Private Matters:** Some issues are personal and may be best left to the individual. Intervening in private matters without a valid reason can lead to discomfort and conflict.

3. **When It’s Not Your Role:** It's important to recognize your role and boundaries. Overstepping can lead to resistance and strained relationships.

4. **Avoiding Excessive Criticism:** Constantly monitoring and correcting every minor issue can be counterproductive and may lead to frustration and resistance. It’s often better to focus on major issues and address them thoughtfully.

Overall, the goal is to provide constructive guidance in a way that is respectful, thoughtful, and considerate of the individual's context and feelings.

⤴️ ChatGPT

https://personalitygrowth.com/heres-how-much-you-micromanage-others-based-on-your-personality-type/

Note: Some Reminders From An INTJ Muslimah (53)

 

Poem: The More The Other Wife Acts Like A Homewrecker The More You Must Compete In Patience And Loyalty

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

💚 Dear Muslim wife who found out her husband recently 

Remarried and this man has more than one family, 

And what may upset her the most is his legally 

Marrying another lady without directly 

Telling her, the woman he married initially...

~•~

If you wonder why at times your husband acts strangely 

Ever since he remarried, why he speaks angrily 

Towards you or why he frowns at you regularly, 

Why he stopped complimenting your cooking or beauty, 

And he's "busier" these days than he was previously...

~•~

While it's fine to be busy, if he consistently 

Cancels meeting up with you, avoids your family, 

And in three months or more he doesn't financially 

Support you and your child/children whom he lovingly 

Cared for more in the past, then perhaps it's sorcery?

~•~

What if someone from either side guilty of envy 

Or desire for revenge was the one who spitefully 

Had the black magic done while being ignorantly 

Unaware of the ruling on witchcraft in our Deen? 

Refuse to be defeated by shaytan's trickery. 

~•~

If your husband was stuck in a pit that's pretty deep, 

Wouldn't you find ways to get him out or patiently 

Keep him company as you wait for a rescue team? 

Wouldn't you ask Allah to increase his piety?

Wouldn't you be that wife who tries to meet her man's needs?

~•~

And if you can't meet all his needs, wouldn't you bravely 

Allow him to remarry, and through polygyny 

You earn more rewards for loving your spouse patiently, 

For accepting Allah's Plans and what Allah decreed. 

See the other wife as a teammate, not enemy.

~•~

In the same team, striving to deserve Jannah's entry, 

View the other wife as a friend who helps you compete 

In gaining more rewards, so in both worlds you succeed, 

And you become more resistant to foul jealousy. 

That Allah will love you more for your patience believe.

~•~

If the other woman brings mischief and selfishly 

Prevents the good man whom you both love from rightfully 

Visiting you and your child/kids whom he lovingly 

Cared about more in the past, then don't permit defeat 

And impatience to destroy your loving family.

~•~

Better let your loved ones learn from your fierce loyalty, 

Resilience and full trust in Allah the Almighty, 

Rather than joining regretful female divorcees 

Who cowardly quit due to scorning polygyny.

Seek Allah's Justice. Don't surrender to sorcery. 

~•~

If the other wife acts like a homewrecker, then be 

Your husband's faraway castle that he didn't leave 

But goes to eagerly when he's ready and released, 

And he still looks forward to a special kind of peace 

With you, his more loyal wife who won't accept defeat.

~•~

If the other wife is like a storm that lasts really 

Long, then be your husband's serene breeze that brings relief, 

Even if time spent with his other wife sadly feels 

As though he abandoned you or like he disappeared. 

Sincere love can wait and doesn't give up easily.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1159

Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to At-Tirmidhi

Ali Al-Qari said, "That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala."

Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125

📖 Abdullah Ibn Umar RadhiAllahu 'anhuma narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's home and his children, and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6719

Sahih Muslim 1829

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The most complete of believers in faith (Imaan) are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women."

Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1162

Grade: Sahih 

https://abukhadeejah.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Righteous-Wife-P1-WEB-7.3-Print-Complete.pdf

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/09/note-thirteen-lessons-learned-from.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/10/tips-some-advice-on-how-to-solve.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2023/02/tips-advice-on-how-to-tell-if-youve.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-while-not-every-woman-gets-to.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2022/10/tips-five-clear-signs-that-your-husband.html 

Note: Call Me Weird If You Like And With Allah's Will I'll Continue Loving My Dear Husband For Allah's Sake

 💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

✅ 13 Lessons learned on loving your spouse, from around 17 years of being married (Alhamdulillah):

1] Getting married isn't the main source of happiness. Your joy, inner peace and contentment should be found in sincerely obeying Allah the Almighty. Regardless of what your marital status is (married, single, widowed, separated), you can never be happy if you don't have Islam, faith/Imaan and Taqwa / piety, as well as awareness of adherence to the correct 'Aqeedah/belief.

2] Genuinely loving your husband for Allah's sake, with actual sincerity / Ikhlaas and patience / Sabr, can 

Inn-sha-Allah help you go through any trial, challenge and difficulty in marriage life. By stubbornly remaining loyal to your destined soulmate for the sake of Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala, you have the ability 

Inn-sha-Allah to continue loving him patiently as his faithful wife despite the different kinds of struggles which you both go through once in a while.

3] Instead of feeling easily hurt when he doesn't return your calls or answer your text messages instantly, be brave enough to forgive, understand him and accept the likelihood of him being so busy, or realize maybe he didn't reply because he had no load that time to send text messages, or if you're in a polygynous marriage, maybe his other wife (who could be insecure and awfully envious of you) is trying to disrupt your communication if you're in polygyny. Earn abundant rewards by practicing patience for Allah's sake rather than insisting on divorce unreasonably.

4] Be grateful for even the smallest acts of kindness and gestures of love from your husband, whether it's found in him feeding you with his own right hand while eating together, drinking from the glass you drank from, enjoying the dishes you cook for him while refraining from inconsiderately criticizing your cooking, letting you lovingly massage him, and showing enthusiasm or willingness to pay close attention when you inform him how your day went or you wish to share some insightful lessons.

5] It's not always that you get to sleep and spend time with your husband. There will be moments when he has to travel to another city or country for several days or months, so at times you anxiously miss him. Missing someone's presence is clear evidence that you really care about them.

6] Don't expect everything to be ideal or absolutely flawless in marriage. Expect instances when your husband makes a mistake, hurts your feelings or cancels appointments. Acknowledge the truth that your spouse is precisely similar to you in being a human. Consider every disappointment as an opportunity to develop your strength in accepting Allah's Qadr/Destiny with rewarding patience.

7] Being patient with your husband doesn't indicate you're weak or you are settling for less than what you actually deserve, but you're in actuality strong enough to not let your ego take control over your actions and you don't allow temporary examinations to keep you upset.

8] It's not a necessity for every Muslim couple to be exactly alike and perfectly compatible for them to get along with each other. In some marriages, the husband is more religious than his wife, whereas in other love journeys, the pious wife has a beautiful chance to inspire her husband to become more righteous for Allah's sake with admirable perseverance.

9] The number of kids that Muslim couples have together do not necessarily measure the quality of their love life. It is possible for a man and woman to remain married without bringing up any children. Their infertility is a test from Allah the Most Merciful, to examine their level of patience and contentment or acceptance of Allah's Decree. Not having offsprings may be their chance to earn more of Allah's Love by showing interest in taking good care of orphans or those who are deprived of the affection of responsible parents.

10] It is absolutely normal for husbands and wives to argue with one another now and then. Instead of considering divorce after an argument, find the courage to be the first to forgive for Allah's sake, the first to apologize, the first to reconcile and make sincere effort to sympathize with how your husband is different. If he stubbornly insists on committing an obvious wrongdoing though, such as smoking or gambling, don't be too quick to abandon him. Pray to Allah that He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala guides your husband and include your spouse in your frequent supplications.

11] Your marriage life is a blessing and gift from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala if it leads you and your spouse to Jannah Paradise, protects you from haraam/forbidden relationships, and trains you to give preference to pleasing Allah over surrendering to shameful desires.

12] In some cases there can be a possibility for a wife to feel attracted to someone other than her husband, or for a man to admire other women who are not his wife/wives. This is another type of test from Allah the Most Forgiving. You are not accountable for whatever thoughts or feelings you have, as long as you try your best to ensure you don't put those inappropriate urges into intentional actions. Strengthen your connection with Allah the Almighty, patiently persist in disciplining your nafs, and courageously lower your gaze as a striving Muslim.

13] Once in a while you may feel slightly jealous of other people's marriages, especially if the sort of friends you hang out with tend to frequently brag about how their love lives seem "perfect". Rather than doubting the quality of your own marriage or feeling discontented, confidently be happy for them, encourage them to stay loyal for Allah's sake, and appreciate the love journey that Allah the Most Loving wisely selected for you. What works for you may not work out for others, and what goes well with others' love lives may not be suitable for your love journey. Since Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala created His servants with unique roles and abilities, not everybody goes through life's trials similarly. 

There are various ways of reaching the peak of a mountain, either by traditional mountain-climbing or mountaineering, ascending a flight of stairs if a stairway has been constructed, riding a cable car if there is one, flying with a helicopter or jet plane, or even just imagining or visualizing you've already reached the top of the mountain. 

Avoid comparing the chapters of your marriage life to others' romance. Do your best for Allah's sake to be a pleasant wife to your husband until you reunite in Jannah Paradise where profound bliss and perfection can be enjoyed for eternity.

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month of Ramadan, guards her chastity, and obeys her husband, she will enter Paradise from any gate she wishes."

Source: Sahih Ibn Hibban 4252

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

https://abukhadeejah.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Righteous-Wife-P1-WEB-7.3-Print-Complete.pdf 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/03/poem-my-brief-love-story-and-allahs.html 

https://mjustsharingislam.blogspot.com/2021/09/poem-why-i-dont-get-tired-of-loving-my.html 

📖 Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: The Messenger of Allah SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "I have left you with two matters which will never lead you astray, as long as you hold to them: The Book of Allah (The Qur'an) and the Sunnah of His Prophet (Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam)."

Source: Al-Muwaṭṭa’ 1661

Grade: Sahih (Authentic)

📚 Some of the English-speaking Salafi/Sunni speakers who call towards the Qur'an and Sunnah of the noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam. Try to research and listen to their lectures on YouTube attentively:

Abbas Abu Yahya

Abdul Hakeem Mitchell

Abdulillah Lahmami

Abu Adam Jameel Finch

Abu Hafsa Kashiff Khan

Abu Hakeem Bilal Davis

Abu Humayd Saalim

Abu Idrees

Abu Iyaad Amjad Rafiq

Abu Khadeejah Abdul Wahid

Abul Hasan Malik

Abu Muadh Taqweem Aslam

Abu Muhammad Al Maghribi

Abu Talha Dawud Burbank

Abu Uways

Anas Waters

Anwar Wright

Hamza Abdur Razzaq

Hassan Somali

Moosaa Richardson

Mustafa George

Raha Batts

Rasheed Barbee

Rayaan Barker

Sa'eed Rhana

Umar Quinn

Uways at-Taweel

🧾 List of Arabic-speaking scholars of today whose Islamic lectures we can benefit from:

- Imām Abdul-Aziz Ibn Bāz

- Imām Muhammad Nasiruddin al-Albani

- Imām Muhammad Ibn 'Uthaymīn

- Imām Muqbil bin Hādī Al-Wādi'i

- Imām Ahmad An-Najmī 

- Shaykh Sāleh Al-Fawzan

- Shaykh Hassan ibn 'Abdul-Wahhāb Marzooq Al-Bannā

- Shaykh Sālih Al-Luhaydān

- Shaykh 'Abdul-Muhsin Al-'Abbād

- Shaykh Rabi' ibn Hādī Al-Madkhalī

- Shaykh 'Ubayd Al-Jābiri

- Mufti Shaykh 'Abdul-'Azīz Āl-ush-Shaykh

- Shaykh Sālih Āl-ush-Shaykh

- Shaykh 'Abdullāh Al-Bukhari

www.YouTube.com/infowishes

💚Note: Reminder to recite Surah Al-Kahf every Jumuah Friday, Surah Al-Mulk each day and night, and include the Muslim Ummah in your prayers.

🗂️✨ Just sharing some PDF books and documents as sadaqa jaariya 

Inn-sha-Allah which you and others can occasionally read and benefit from 

Inn-sha-Allah so your faith Imaan levels can be strengthened:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/17bcwBZE9fKy2kATblygJVrKdgmeqFQu7

📑 I only have 2 accounts on Facebook, Alhamdulillah I never upload selfies and while I'm of Maranao tribe I can't speak Tagalog or other Filipino dialect fluently yet since I was born in Saudi Arabia with English as my first language. Inn-sha-Allah I'm still learning 🌼