بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين

بسم الله. ربي زدني علما. امين
May Allah the Almighty grant us more beneficial knowledge, accept our good deeds, forgive our mistakes, protect us from fitna, and join us with the righteous believers in Jannatul Ferdaus. Ameen.

Monday, November 13, 2023

Note: What's Your Stance On The Palestinian Issue?

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ Question: What's your stance on the current dilemma in Jerusalem Palestine? Why are you so quiet and not protesting at all? Why are you not doing anything to alleviate the condition of the Palestinian Muslims?
📝 Answer: Allah the Almighty knows best. 
1. I am completely against the injustices and atrocities committed against any human being regardless of their religion. I don't agree with the violence done against the Palestinians whether Muslims or not (and this issue has been going on for so many years) just as I oppose what the oppressive Nazis did against the innocent civilian Jews before. 
2. Although I disapprove of what some non-Muslims have done against Palestinian Muslims, I personally don't agree with taking part in noisy protests and supposedly peaceful rallies nor do I advocate the idea of demeaning any country's flag or dissing specific nationalities. You can't hate on an entire nation or country simply because of the ignorant acts and idiocy of a number of miseducated individuals. 
3. Despite not liking the concept of protesting and waving flags of a particular country to display "solidarity" with those who've been suffering for a long time, Alhamdulillah I've been avoiding, since some years ago, certain products which I believe somehow contribute to aiding those groups of individuals who are directly or indirectly responsible for the injuries and casualties in Jerusalem Palestine. 
4. I think it's ironic that some individuals are very enthusiastic about wanting Palestine to be set free yet many of them on social media proudly flaunt how much money they've spent at Starbucks or they chant "free Palestine" while casually sipping on or gulping drinks from beverage companies which could be openly supportive of the oppressors responsible for the injuries and casualties of Palestinian Muslims. If you're wondering why I am okay with boycotting some branded products but I'm not one of those who are into conducting online protests and street demonstrations, consider the fact that if I were an environmentalist and was eager to play a part in preserving nature (while knowing that Only Allah The Almighty has full control over His creation and what He Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala decrees to occur in the entire universe), I would abstain, as much as possible, from wasting money on items sold by retailers who intend to use a portion of their earnings to deliberately spoil the environment by any means available, and joining a crowd of protestors chanting "protect the environment" would not make any sense if they're doing that in front of uninhabited buildings and the only ones actually paying attention to their chants are a few jinns who probably don't care much about saving the environment.
5. I personally believe that Muslims and non-Muslims should be able to co-exist without getting into battles and squabbles through not meddling in each other's rights and boundaries. "For you is your religion, and for me my religion." We Muslims are not supposed to force anybody to accept Islam and likewise people of other religions must not compel us to do anything that contradicts Islamic values. 
6. If I were a millionaire or if I had the financial ability to do charity for Allah's sake, I would enthusiastically send medical supplies, clothes and other essentials to the affected civilians regardless of their religion. I remember several years ago Alhamdulillah my dear parents (Allah yarhamhuma. Ameen.) often filled up large boxes and cartons with packed foods and clothing etc. for some Palestinian, Chechen and/or Bosnian refugees in the past, sending them to Islamic organizations which were authorized or assigned to distribute charitable donations to the Muslim needy. If there's a project like that here in the Philippines and those collecting the donations are trustworthy Muslims who sincerely wish to alleviate the circumstances of other human beings, 
Inn-sha-Allah I'd be willing to contribute with what I can, but at the moment I am not in the position yet to do charity whenever I want to. If an infant is crying in a jam-packed airplane while his parents are asleep and they're wearing earphones, I can't walk all the way to their seat to comfort the baby, no matter how much I want to, while I'm seated between arguing passengers who refuse to stand up and the aisle is being blocked by some stewardesses nonchalantly distributing the in-flight meals. I can attempt to throw a bottle of milk to the baby if I had one, and if I know that the baby can miraculously catch flying objects, but then one of the travelers may grab it first and enjoy the drink themselves.
7. Alhamdulillah what I try to do more of is regularly including the Muslim Ummah and the oppressed Muslims in my prayers / Du'as / supplications particularly when praying Tahajjud / Qiyaam Al-Layl, and sometimes sharing some Islamic articles with others to raise awareness regarding what we Muslims can appropriately do (instead of going against any governor and enticing further violence with violence) when other Muslims are suffering from some people's unjust actions which 
Inn-sha-Allah will be asked about on the Day of Judgment.
~•~
📖 Suhayb RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Amazing is the affair of the believer, as there is good for him in every matter. This is not the case for anyone but for the believer. If he goes through ease (or happy moments), he thanks Allah and it is good for him. If he goes through difficulty, he shows patience and it is good for him."
Source: Sahih Muslim 2999
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Nothing afflicts a Muslim of hardship, nor illness, nor anxiety, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor distress, not even the pricking of a thorn, but that Allah will expiate his sins by it."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5318
Sahih Muslim 2573
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
📖 Anas Ibn Malik RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is one who is trusted by the people. The Muslim is one from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe (not guilty of backbiting, telling lies, and deliberately committing injustice). The emigrant (muhaajir) is one who emigrates away from evil. By the One (Allah the Almighty) in Whose Hand is my soul, a servant will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his harm."
Source: Sahih Ibn Hibbān 515 
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Arna'ut

Saturday, November 11, 2023

Poem: Of Course You Don't Need A Man To Feel Complete Or Whole

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
📝 To Muslimahs who are single while they feel unsure 
About marrying a guy who could be immature, 
Who may be guilty of abuse, who's currently poor 
With a lot of debts, or his intentions are impure: 
Yes, you don't need a man to feel complete - that's for sure.
~•~
You don't need to marry a guy who's overly close 
To his mom who takes charge of him, his choices and clothes - 
Don't wed a guy who can't make decisions on his own 
And by absurd emotions you can see he's controlled. 
Say no to suitors whose manners and morals are low.
~•~
You don't require a man to feel complete - that's well known. 
But wouldn't it be nice to love a Muslim who's strong 
In faith Imaan while his friendship offers more comfort, 
And with him as your mahram you can explore the globe 
When Allah Wills, and your husband's presence reassures?
~•~
To ladies who are single while not one guy proposed, 
Whether they are in their late twenties or they're almost 
Forty - don't worry; it's not a crisis to feel "old" 
While being single. Don't trust every word that you're told. 
Perhaps Allah wants you to not marry any soul -
~•~
On earth, just as Allah decreed some trees to not grow 
And bear fruits or flowers, while there are birds in this world
Which can't fly. The fact they're flightless doesn't make them slow. 
Maybe, instead of marriage, by Allah you're endowed 
With countless other gifts that won't stop you from your goals.
~•~
Maybe if you were married, and Only Allah knows, 
You may lack the needed strength to cope well with divorce 
Or exposing your heart to frequent marital woes. 
So never doubt your worth if not one guy has proposed. 
Perhaps singlehood is safer for your Imaan's growth. 
~•~
While your marital status won't define you of course, 
Don't despise and don't dread the concept of marriage nor 
Loathe your mere existence if no one has yet proposed. 
Your tests / journeys to Jannah Allah already wrote. 
There's wisdom in Allah's Plans - He knows what keeps you whole.
~•~
📖 Aisha RadhiAllahu 'anha narrated: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, should women be asked for their consent (permission) before marriage?” The Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Yes." I said, “Indeed, sometimes a virgin is too shy to speak when asked.” The Prophet SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Her silence (not refusing nor complaining) is her consent (sign that she accepts the marriage proposal)."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6547
Sahih Muslim 1420
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "If someone proposes marriage to you whose religion and character satisfies you, then you should accept it. If you do not do so, there will be trials (fitna/fitan) on the earth and the spread of corruption."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1084
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 

Poem: Eleven Things I Love About My Dear Husband

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
💚 Eleven things which I like and admire about him - 
The handsome man whom Allah the Most Wise has chosen 
To be my soulmate, other half and from my close friends: 
One:- I love that he lives for Allah, that he's Muslim. 
Two:- I love how with his mom he's got strong connection.
~•~
Three: I love his good efforts to care for his children, 
Ensuring that his kids receive proper upbringing 
And trying his best to support their education. 
Four: I love his voice whenever he's the Muadhdhin. 
Five: When he reads the Qur'an, his tone is amazing.
~•~
Six: I love how with his family he's kind, loving, 
So lenient, caring, forgiving and understanding. 
Seven: I love how he strives to stay safe when driving, 
That he's not a rude driver unlike immature men. 
Eight: I love his concern for his young and old patients.
~•~
Nine: I love his sense of humor, he's entertaining
And easygoing, able to make me laugh often. 
Ten: I love his courage, how he's not so demanding, 
And how I can never describe him as "arrogant".
Eleven: I love how I view him as a blessing - 
~•~
And gift from Allah the Most Kind to train my patience 
And contentment with the decree Allah has destined. 
Through my husband, Alhamdulillah, I've truly learned 
To be more patient with strangers, neighbors and loved ones, 
While awaiting his perfection in Jannah Heaven.
~•~ 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Amr RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The world is enjoyment and the best (lawful) enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife."
Source: Sahih Muslim 1467
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated that Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “If I were to order anyone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a wife to prostrate before her husband.”
Source: Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 1159
Grade: Hasan (Fair) according to Al-Tirmidhi 
Ali Al-Qari said, “That she prostrates to her husband is due to the number of his rights over her and her difficulty in maintaining gratitude for them. This rhetorical point conveys the obligation of the wife to obey her husband in his rights. Indeed, prostration is not lawful to anyone other than Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala).”
Source: Mirqāt Al-Mafātīḥ 5/2125

Friday, November 10, 2023

Note: When You're Just A Stranger To An INTJ Don't Expect Long Talks With Them

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 

🗒️ Question: As an INTJ-A personality type, what have you done or usually do when you believe that someone does not deserve to be a close friend but merely an acquaintance or another absolute and permanent stranger?
📝 Answer: Allahu A'lam. Alhamdulillah I've done at least one or more of the following when I have decided to discontinue trying to develop the connection and the person is just a casual acquaintance or neighbor: 
1. I unfriended them on Facebook for Allah's sake or if they deleted me from their list of "Facebook friends" I didn't bother asking them, despite being generally direct and straightforward, about their decision to delete because whatever claim or explanation they give is no longer of significance to me. 
2. I avoid checking their online profiles, reading their comments thoroughly and browsing around their uploads. So if they go on a trip to upload photos of themselves, desperately wanting me to "envy" what they post, they're simply wasting their time pretending to be all bubbly, uploading pictures and nonsense which I know aren't worthy of my attention. 
3. If ever I need advice or require valuable feedback about something important, they wouldn't even be considered as a dependable and trustworthy individual whom I can confide in. 
4. Even if I have some free time at a social event or workplace, I'd rather read from the Noble Qur'an, research more about Islam, use my cellphone, take a nap or look at a cat than initiate random conversations with an unreliable, clearly narcissistic or negative person. 
5. I'd knowingly refrain from sending them messages to thank them for "favors" or "gifts" given while it's typical for me to immediately express my appreciation for someone's kindness (if I'm aware of how to contact them) as soon as they do something helpful or generous. When it comes to family and relatives though, verbally thanking them face to face and regularly including them in my Du'as are sufficient in my opinion. 

Deliberately distancing myself from those whom I sense are not good for me and my faith/Imaan doesn't mean I'm "arrogant"; I don't want anything to do with artificial and badly brought up individuals who fail to inspire me to become a better Muslim and their bad vibes act as distracting obstacles to my goals.
~•~
📖 Abu Umamah RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Whoever loves for the sake of Allah (The Almighty), hates for the sake of Allah, gives for the sake of Allah, and withholds for the sake of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) has perfected the faith."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4681
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends."
Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 2378
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Nawawi
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "The believer is not stung from the same hole twice."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 5782
Sahih Muslim 2998
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Poem: I'm Not Jealous Of Your Obsession With Dunya And Material Greed

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 
🗒️ To narcissists and egotists who assume wrongly 
That I "envy" their affluence and ability
To enjoy dining at fine restaurants frequently
And travel often to different cities/countries: 
I don't envy you. I'm not impressed by luxury.
~•~
You can tell me you own a yacht, traveled to Venice, 
Toured around Disneyland, became a wife at eighteen, 
Gave birth to triplets, have a twin, can speak Cantonese
Fluently as well as Urdu and some Portuguese, 
And still I won't feel envious. Don't suppose that, please.
~•~
You can claim you've got two mansions - in Spain and in Greece, 
Drive four cars - Ford, Lexus, Daewoo and Benz-Mercedes, 
Or restock your large wardrobes of branded clothes each week, 
And still I can't envy your possessions and money. 
I am not impressed by riches and material greed.
~•~
If you lack faith Imaan and kind personality, 
If pride in being "rich" makes you ugly inwardly, 
And if "selfish" describes you while you snub the needy, 
You'd be like a donkey wearing pearls and jewelry, 
Without purposeful goals, as deluded as can be.
~•~
Why would I wish to be like donkeys flaunting shiny
Gems and showy accessories while their disbelief 
And misconduct speak volumes about their misery?
They appear wealthy but they're sad in reality - 
Distressed they've attached themselves to things temporary.
~•~
Even if you can afford costly commodities, 
Or reside in spacious homes designed creatively, 
I wouldn't bring myself to make room for jealousy, 
Since envying others shows you doubt Allah's Decree, 
And contented Muslims don't get jealous easily.
~•~
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Faith and envy do not combine within a believing servant."
In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Greed and faith (Imaan) are never combined in the heart of a servant."
Source: Sunan Al-Nasā’ī 3109
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Albani 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Look at those below you and do not look at those above you, for it is the best way not to belittle the favors of Allah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala)."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125
Sahih Muslim 2963
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "There is no envy but in two cases: A man whom Allah (The Most Wise) has given wealth and he spends it rightly (for Allah's sake), and a man whom Allah has given wisdom and he judges and teaches others with it."
Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 73 
Sahih Muslim 816
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim 
📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah's noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, "Beware of envy, for it devours good deeds just as fire devours wood or grass."
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4903
Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Al-Suyuti